Have you been dating a Leo man and really want to become his wife? Perhaps you’re seeing him and would like to kick things up a notch so that you can head down the long road of happiness. Whatever the reason is, keep reading for some tips on how to win Leo man over enough to commit more or even marry you.
Leo Man Marriage
The Leo man is looking for a specific woman and won’t marry until he feels he’s found her. The good news is, if he feels he’s found her, he won’t wait too entirely long to snag her up and marry her.
The first thing to remember is you need to show him why he should marry you. Be everything he needs and wants in a partnership. If you are doing these things then it shouldn’t be too long or too difficult for him to want to marry you.
Unless he’s been burned by marriage before, he’s not one to hold back for a long period of time or have to think things over like perhaps Taurus, Virgo, or Libra men do.
Leo man is romantic and will want to show a grand gesture upon asking for your hand in marriage. How do you get him to want to do this though? It’s likely that if you’ve been with him for awhile, he may want to but needs a little nudge.
Leo men aren’t good at picking up on subtle suggestions so pointing out engagements on television or hinting about the future may not really get you too far with him. You’ll have to employ another tactic.
Planting the Seeds
If the Leo man hasn’t already thought or planned out a proposal in his head, he’s probably literally thinking about other things. It’s not that he doesn’t love you or doesn’t want to marry you, he’s just comfortable and likely busy with other things.
To get things moving, you may need to give him some ideas. Instead of hinting around at being ready for marriage, you may try talking about all the people who are becoming engaged as of late.
I’d look for some examples if you can because he may ask “oh yeah, like who?”. If you see a proposal on the news or anything like that, point it out to him! Tell him how romantic you think it is and how it makes you feel happy.
Basically you are dropping hints but being a little more forward about it. You can stop and look at rings one day for fun next time you go to the mall. Tell him you just want to look and then point out the ones you love.
He’ll start that ball rolling in his head. He does want to please you and if he loves you, he’ll start getting the impression that maybe it’s high time to go ahead and pop the question.
He Has to think it’s His Idea
Leo man is a born leader and he will not respond well to you just out and out telling him you’d like to get married. Don’t ever propose to him either! For some men that works well but for him, it will destroy his pride.
Leo wants to be “the man” and that means being the one to do the proposing. He’d be embarrassed and somewhat hurt if you took the lead in asking him to marry you.
It has to be his idea or at least think that it is. If you plant the seeds like I mentioned above, you give him the power to choose when and how to propose thus making you both happy.
You can also try leaving some bridal magazines laying around. If he asks why you have them, tell him that you have a friend or co-worker that is getting married and she wanted your opinion on some dresses.
You can even flip through them while he’s sitting next to you and ask him which one he thinks you’d look good in. That’s a way to get him fantasizing about you in a wedding dress which could get the path moving.
It’s a way of putting ideas into his head without being too aggressive. This allows for Leo man to do what comes natural to him and be an alpha male. Slipping him little ideas will be a big inspiration.
Talk About It
If you’ve never been married before you can simply say things like “I wonder what it would be like if we ever got married”. It may make him think it over on a much larger level which could bring you some results.
You can say “do you ever see marriage for us?” and see what he says. You’re not pressuring him and you’re not telling him “marry me or else”, you’re just simply bringing up a good topic of conversation.
By the way, do NOT EVER try to give him an ultimatum. If he isn’t ready or it makes him feel like less than a man, he will just give up the relationship entirely. It’s best to avoid putting that type of load on his shoulders.
Bringing marriage up casually is probably alright as long as you don’t dwell on it and make it seem as though that is what you’re fishing for. Remember, he has to think it’s his idea and that he actually wants to.
When he wants to, he absolutely will plan out a wonderful way to propose to you. He’ll also likely want your family involved if you are close to them. He’s a bit traditional when it comes to these types of things.
Let him be the man and let him take charge. Just plant your seeds very carefully and if nothing changes, bring it up a little more, and keep doing it periodically. At some point he’s going to “get a clue” and decide to take some action.
If you’re just scratching the surface with your Leo guy, you should really learn all you can about his sign. It may help you in the long run. Click here for more details on him!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,