Are you heartbroken after a breakup with a Leo man and wondering if there’s a chance for him to come back after things have ended?
The Leo man is someone who is a force to be reckoned with. He can be caring and generous to those he cares for, yet he can also be very cold and seemingly harsh at times.
Can he still love you and try to repair what went wrong? Anything is possible, but it depends on where his heart was and where it is now. Will a Leo man come back?
Knowing how to get a Leo man back is one thing, but being successful at it can prove to be quite difficult. You need to know how to fix a relationship with a Leo man for this to work, and I am not going to lie to you girl, this can be very difficult so you need to promise to be committed or else it might not work.
If getting your Leo man is on your agenda then you have come to the right place! Keep on reading to find out some surefire signs a Leo man wants you back, and whether or not he will come back after a breakup.
Do Leo Men Come Back — Are They Likely To Come Back After A Breakup?
For a Leo man, love is the answer. If he wasn’t that into you or in love with you then he may not be so keen to come back. However, if you were a great love of his, then there is still hope.
The break up will always be a factor in this as well. Was it infidelity on your part or maybe on his? If cheating was involved, it may be rather complicated. Once trust is breached, he tends to pull back.
If you two broke up because you were too young or because you two rushed into things, there still could be a chance that you can talk and try to see if giving it another chance is optional.
Honesty is always going to be important. If you still have feelings for him and want to get him back, tell him the truth. Tell him that you’ve learned from what happened and you’d like to try again.
The more honest you are with him, the more chance he’ll give it another try. If he isn’t interested in doing so, he will probably tell you that he isn’t and will give you the reason why as well.
Don’t be afraid to reach out and tell him exactly what you’re feeling. If you don’t take the risk then you may not win the rewards. Rewards come from when you’re willing to stick your neck out.
Yes, there is a risk of failure too but how will you ever know if you don’t bring your feelings to the plate? You’ve got to take a chance and open up to him. Either he will bite and go back to you or he’ll tell you there is no way.
How Long Does It Take For A Leo Man To Come Back?
Leo man is strong and vigilant, but he’s also someone who can get hurt and carry that baggage around the rest of his life. He’ll move on and typically very quickly win the affections of another.
He is known for his dedication and loyalty. How long does it take for him to come back actually depends on the situation itself and circumstances involved. It could take from a few days to a couple of months or even longer to come back.
In the event that you two broke up because you hurt his feelings, he will not be quite as responsive. He’s not going to trust you quickly.
You will have to prove to him just how sorry you are. It’s not going to be easy but if you truly do still love him, you’ll do everything you can in order to regain his confidence in you and your love.
Be honest and respectful of his boundaries, and give him time and space to heal. Don’t pressure him if he is not ready. When time elapses, if he really cares for you, he will return to talk.
When A Leo Man Wants You Back — Signs To Look Out For
He’s Still Affectionate With You
Even if things are going badly, if a Leo man is still affectionate with you, it means that he is genuinely still in love with you and wants to work it out.
Little acts such as putting his arm around you, giving you a kiss every now and then, and snuggling with you at night mean that his heart is still yours.
He Is Protective And Slightly Jealous
Leo men are generally a little jealous. They like being the center of your world, and they resent it if you give your time and energy to anyone else.
This sometimes looks like protectiveness, too, especially if he’s still volunteering to be the breadwinner. If he’s still a little possessive of your time and attention, rest assured that he wants you.
He‘s Willing To Change For You
Leo men are remarkably stubborn. They are reluctant to change even at the best of times, and they can really dig their heels in when they want to.
However, if he shows any willingness to change for the betterment of the relationship, then he really is still all-in.
He’s Loyal, Despite The Challenges
Leo men are very, very strong. They can handle a lot of life’s knocks, and they always manage to pick themselves up. Their loyalty matches their strength, and a typical Leo man won’t give up on you very easily.
Even when your relationship is hard, his loyalty won’t waver if he’s still in love with you.
How Do You Make A Leo Man Regret Losing You?
Focusing on your own healing and growth is the best way to handle a breakup and to make a Leo man regret losing you.
Try focusing on yourself and making your life path successful. When you do that you’re healing your own wounds and learning to make yourself happy. There are few things you could do, such as:
Investing time in your hobbies and interests. Pursuing your passions to become the best version of yourself. Leo man loves confidence and showing him you are living your life to the fullest will make him regret losing you.
Being positive and happy. Do not contemplate revenge. Do not show your hurt feelings. Surround yourself with positive people, people who will support you no matter what.
Not begging for his attention. In other words – do not chase him. It is unnecessary and ineffective. This will only drift him further away from you. Instead, do not prioritize him, show him that you are going well without him and he will realize that he made a mistake by letting you go.
Radiating confidence. Be proud of yourself. Don’t let him see that you are shattered by the breakup and that you desperately want him back. He needs to see that you are only prioritizing yourself and that you are not putting him in your focus.
How To Get A Leo Man Back — 5 Steps To Win Him Back
Getting a Leo man back depends on what the breakup was like and who initiated it. Breaking up with a fire Zodiac sign is never an easy event to get over.
As you may know, being with this sign feels warm, loving, and close. When they’re gone, life can be devoid of color, cold, and dark in some way.
You have to learn to light your own fire within! You also have to remember all the reasons why you broke up with the Leo man, regardless of whoever was the one to call it off. Look no further but learn more about what to expect when breaking up with a Leo man.
And now, you can keep on reading to learn more about the steps to win a Leo man back!
1. Flatter Him As Much As You Can
Leo men are suckers for flattery. Compliment him every chance you get and let him know how much you still care. Whatever happened between the two of you, tell him that you were wrong and you’d like to win his love again.
Tell him his love is the sweetest and you need to have him in your life again. Tell him how good he’s looking these days and how much you long to have his wonderful arms wrapped around you.
You can even entice him sexually by telling him that he’s the best you’ve ever had and you want to feel him again. Be explicit if you want to as he’ll never turn down some juicy compliments like this.
Is Leo man this shallow? Well, most of the time, yes. He has an ego that needs to be fed and one of the ways it gets fed is by receiving lots of affection or adoration. Therefore, complimenting or flattering him will make him feel good.
When he feels good about himself and good about the relationship he can provide for you, he may very well feel compelled to give it another shot. Naturally if he’s already in a new relationship, this may not work well.
It would depend on if he’s in a happy new relationship or if he’s in a relationship with a woman that isn’t giving him what he wants. Then he may still take your offer and leave her behind.
Read more on how to make a Leo man chase you here <<
2. Discuss Why Things Failed Before
You’re going to need to know for 100% sure why he wanted to end things if he was the one that ended it. If you were the one that ended it, you’ll need to commit to telling him why and that it was the wrong choice.
Leo men don’t want to hear how they were wrong and what he can do to make it better. That’s the wrong angle to work it. Try asking him “what went so wrong? You’re so wonderful and amazing that I should have seen it better”. You see how you’re complimenting him and asking an important question at the same time?
Be sure of what caused the break up in the first place and then play it from there. If you cheated, there may not be much you can do to resolve this or get him back. Unless you tell him how wrong you were and that he’s the only one for you.
If he was the one that cheated, well, if you want to take the risk of having him do it again, then you can certainly still tell him that he’s the one for you and that there is no one better. I wouldn’t advise trying to get a cheater back though.
Getting things out in the open may help him to work on trying to develop his relationship with you better or open up to give you another chance. As long as you prove to him that things will work this time around. He’ll want reassurance.
In the case that you lied or ignored him, you’re really going to have to lay it on thick when you suck up to him so that he’ll actually believe it. If you don’t he’ll consider you a kiss ass and walk away. Be very careful!
3. Let Him Be Himself
This may or may not be the hard part for you but if you’re going to get your Leo man back, you’re going to have to accept him “as is” and understand that you cannot control or change him.
As such, when he wants to do things, you’re going to have to either keep up with him or let him do it with his friends. I’m talking about activities that are within reason. I’m not saying let him go out and have an affair.
I mean if he wants to go camping, kayaking, jet skiing, or parasailing and you’re not down with it, you can at least show him support even if you secretly are terrified of him hurting himself.
Do not be clingy with him. It’s alright to show him love and affection often but if you go overboard, he’ll think you are too needy and will want to pull away from you. To win a Leo man over, you’re going to have to be spontaneous and flexible with your time.
If you’re struggling to be spontaneous with a Leo man, I strongly recommend checking out my 30-day Leo Man Love Challenge… It will set you on the right path with that hot Leo guy.
4. Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone
Even when you’re afraid, try stepping outside your comfort zone and do some things with him that he really wants to do. You don’t have to do everything he does but if you do some, he’ll appreciate you more.
Show your Leo that you really adore him by being the woman by his side when he wants to go out and show you off. Wear something really nice and sexy but with class.
Be his eye candy that other men will be jealous of. He loves that stuff. Especially if you hug him and give him a big ole peck on the cheek. He’ll gloat. Yes this is an ego thing but if it makes him happy, it’s worth doing every now and then.
There should always be compromise so don’t ever do anything that you don’t feel he’s not giving you an equal amount of it back. Talk to him and work it out!
5. Be patient
Getting a Leo man back takes time, so it is important not to rush things. Let him know you want him back but respect his need for space as he may want to think about the break up and question where he stands with the whole situation.
So, focus on the present moment, breathe, allow everything to settle down, patiently wait for him to come back. If you corner him, he will have the need to pull back and there will be no second chances.
Naturally everyone wants peace of mind. By being patient you are making sure he understands how much you still love and appreciate him.
Read next: Step By Step Instructions To Get A Leo Man To Commit
FAQ On A Leo Man Breakup
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Leo man and will he come back after the breakup?
Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Leo man.
How Long Can A Leo Man Go Without Talking To You?
Usually from a few days to several weeks. However, if circumstances are very serious, if he can no longer trust you, then it would take him a couple of months to reflect on the situation and decide if he would like to continue the relationship or move forward.
Will A Leo Man Chase You After A Breakup?
Yes! If he still loves you he will use the front door to your heart to show his gestures and affection. He may even show his feelings in public in his passionate and dramatic manner, to let you know he wants you back!
Will A Leo Man Miss You After A Breakup?
Leo man will miss you after breaking up with you, only and only the relationship was meaningful and significant to him. He can be quite nostalgic when it comes to shared intimacy and good times spent together.
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Anna Kovach
Hi, I am a Capricorn woman and my boyfriend is ignoring me because he thinks i hurt him. While it is never my intention to do so, he always sees me as a disrespectful one. So it all started when there was a memorial day for my father, i promise to him i would introduce him to my brothers. But i fail, as i have so much in hands. also i was not confident enough because he was an alcoholic. I hurt his feelings and i regret it. Now i do not exist anymore in his eyes, yet i am telling him i would not break up. He’s been ignoring me for almost 1 week but i keep showering him love. But deep down in my heart, i feel lonely as he doesn’t respond to any of my love. I am deeply confused. I don’t wanna give up, yet i cant stand for how long will this take? Can we get together again and be lovebirds once more? I told him no matter what we have been through, i am still in love with him. Yet i dont know about him to me.
Hey Anggun,
I know its frustrating to tolerate fluctuating emotions of a leo guy. Point is , it is true that they are extremely sensitive and egoistic so no doubt, a small gesture can navigate their rude behavior. In your case, he might have taken that you didnt want your brother to meet him as he was not worthy enough thus, the whole ignoring of your advances.Its a trick of leo peeps to keep their loved one on toes as they cherish reassurance and submission (speaking from experience) plus, keeping a loved one in dark about the current status of relationship means two things( leo context) i) he is not sure about you as a partner in long run and does’nt want to lose you till the when he finds someone better ii) he is observing and judging your efforts and commitment towards him.
So, ghosting you out for week can be taken as a punishment for not arranging a meet up between your brother and him.
Loving a leo is a hard task especially for Earthen woman , if he is worth it then you need to pace up with his energy otherwise the spark might fizzle out.
So, do reassure him and give him some time he will be back.
P.S Leo guys mature late!
Very embarrassed but here’s my story
Me and leo guy were friends. We agreed we both weren’t ready for a relationship and kids were out of the question. We had been getting closer throughout the years (2 to be exact) and i thought i waa was breaking down barriers and showing him i was there no matter what. Then boom! I got preggo. It was a hard decision on me. He wanted abortion and i was too scared and indecisive to make a choice. 3 days before my miscarrige, he backed me in a corner and i told him I’m having a miscarriage but if i don’t I’m keeping it. Once i told him it was twins and i lost them, he told me he doesn’t hate me but he’s leaving me alone. A week or later, I’m begging and pleading and my car gets destroyed and i had to call on him to help which he did. I guess he decided to try to fix the friendship without telling me because he started to be nice.
I made mistake 2 by telling his teen daughter some things ( we had grown close and she got attached to me). Sje told her mom and the mom told him. He fussed. I sincerely apologized and he said he was done. Them he came back 10 days later. Then we were ok for a few days but i heard the anger and resentment so i left him alone. He came back again and told me to stay away from his kids because they are close to me and the oldest is trying to get me back into his life and it angers him. He came back again last week and stayed over and basically told me he’s not ready for a relationship, and i told him i won’t ask anymore. I love this man and i believe he doesn’t love me. I chose to back off now but am unsure if i ruined everything by accident or will he come back to try and be friends again
Hi Cee!
Thank you for writing in. Don’t be embarrassed honey. I’m sorry you went through rough times like this. To be honest, it sounds like he may be done BUT the only way you’ll know that is by giving it some time. Stay friends with him and keep lines of communication open. Show him that you’re a better person and that you’re really working on yourself. There’s a chance he may see things a little differently and you can get another chance. Please take care of yourself first and foremost though sweetheart. You need it!
Hi Anggun!
As a Capricorn woman, your probably bound to tell the truth and though it’s the truth, Leo man doesn’t always want to hear it. He’s sensitive to criticism of any kind and doesn’t like to be told what to do. Even if you’re only making suggestions trying to help him, he will see that as an attack and that you’re being inconsiderate. They’re much like Libra men in this aspect. To clear things up, you’d have to find a more effective way to communicate with him without making him feel attacked. Saying things like “I don’t want this to be taken as criticism because I’m only trying to help…..” then say what you have to say. See what I mean? Communication is always a make or break for any relationship. I hope you find a way to turn it around sweetheart! Do what is ultimately right for you.
I’m a cancer psychic and I’ve been dating my Leo boyfriend for a little over a year. He’s 11 years my senior.
I’m madly in love with him but I’m afraid of the lack of compromise he shows by immediately breaking up with me when we disagree. I feel awkward to say that every time we’ve gotten back together, I insisted.
I’ve become a very insecure woman in this relationship. One of my biggest issues is I cannot tell me there’s room for improvement. When I say I’m unhappy he blames my temper and ignores me. We’re currently not together, this is the 3rd time he’s broken up. While I recognize I’m not perfect, I feel that I’m very disposable to this man.
I have a feeling he hides me, we spend a lot of time indoors, doesn’t have any relationship with me whatsoever on social media and we haven’t done anything with my children. On the other hand he’s spoken about the future, getting married …
As a psychic and an empathetic, I find myself constantly watching over him and feeding his ego. In return, I hear hard criticism.
I’ve learnt that a Leo man can be hurtful. I’m to make a decision on whether I persist or accept that he isn’t willing.
Every time he broke up with me he carried on with his life and I stayed behind depressed. Deciding not to insist might be the hardest thing I do.
Hi Madzev!
He sounds insecure since he wants to break up every time you two disagree. He’d rather break it off with you first than for you to break his heart. If this is making you feel insecure then you have a hodge podge of insecurity between the two of you. You need to work on yourself and not worry about his so that you can stand strong and be the woman you are. Try meditation. There are a bunch on YouTube for free. Search for “meditation for emotional security” and you’ll find what you’re looking for. Do it daily for at least 30 days and you should notice an improvement in yourself. It really does work if you do it! Once he sees you get strong, he will have to either jump on board or he’ll have to let you go so you can find someone who can keep up with you. I wish you the best!
Melissa Williams
My fiancee have been together for 4years and 7 months and we were to move into another house, but this month roughly 2 weeks and 3days ago my daddy threw him out, insulted him,embarrassed him, called him names, and couple minutes after that he broke up with me after and told me he is giving me and my dad our space and he wants nothing to do with me again and his love for me has died then started to cry. We have a child together, and he has started to lash out, he is there for our 3 year old daughter, and he was my high school sweet heart for 2 years but we lost contact and when we gained it back he was marrying and I told him that won’t work out and 4years later we were back together. We decided we wanted a baby but I found out 2 days after the break and he said he doesn’t want it get rid of it. We were to move out and marry and now I’m having another baby with him that out of anger he wants to kill the baby that he wanted by me. He keeps telling everyone else we aren’t on good terms at the moment or we just aren’t not speaking right now. My dad refuses to apologise and my dad has been picking on him all the years. Will my leo be back?
Hi Melissa!
Wow if he’s willing to tell you something like you should abort your baby, he’s not right. Why would you want someone who would say something like that to the mother of his children? He sounds very angry and bitter and unless your dad and he can find some peaceful ground together, this rift would always be an issue. It would be an extremely hard road and sadly, I’m unable to tell you if he will be back. He has to want to fix things and work at it. Without knowing more about him, I cannot tell you. I’m so sorry honey. You need to dig deep within and figure out if he’s worth all the difficulty. You need to be healthy and happy as does your baby. I wish you well!
Hello so I’ve met this guy. He’s a Leo we started off as just friends with benefits which I did not mind on. Now through the quarantine we have spent a lot of time speaking to each other and he’s opening up slowly sharing aspects of his life. Then he ghosted for abit which I confronted him about it and he said that he’s antisocial sometimes and it has nothing to do with anyone. We carried on speaking but one night he asked me to twerk for his friend in prison over a video call. He called me and then disappeared from the video call leaving me and his friend alone and when I confronted him about this and told him that I didn’t like it he made it seem as though it was nothing bad. I’m at the point where I like him but I won’t chase him if he’s just playing games. What should I do? Do this mean his attraction to me is done? He still watches my stories but we don’t speak as much as we did before the whole situation happened. Sometimes I can see him online before but he would take a while to message me back. What does this mean also?
Hi CoCo!
Yikes I think he tested you to see if you would actually do it. You probably shouldn’t have. Leo men are very possessive and jealous. While he wants to show off to his buddy in prison, he at the same time probably got jealous that you would do that for another male. It’s messed up but it does sound like a game. I think you should confront him on it and find out why he did that otherwise you’ll never find out the answers and you deserve better! If you need more help with Leo, please read my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
Hey I’ve been talking to a Leo man for about 9 months and I’m a Capricorn woman We are in a situationship which is where u are together but without the title. I had been living with him for 8 months just moved out because we got in a huge fight he thinks I’m direspectful and he wants me to change but acts like he does nothing wrong I’ve tried asking him multiply times if we are still going to be together or not but he won’t give me and answer everytime I ask he just tries to ignore it or talk bout something else he keeps ignoring me also n it got to the point we’re I got so fed up I called him a coward which he didn’t like I apoplogized after it but he didn’t feel it was genuine And he told my bestfriend he doesn’t think I would change and everything he is doing he is doing on purpose and he won’t give me an answer to my question until he feels it’s genuine he doesn’t really text me or call me but if I do text or call him he will respond he has came to see me like 3 times this week even brought me something from the store I didn’t ask for and i invited him over to the house and he even came so I’m just really confused like he does things tht makes me feel like he isn’t done but then he doesn’t talk to me like before but then again he comes to see me sometimes someone help please I’m really stressed I need to know to move on or to just give him space!!!!
Hi Dbaby!
Ah yes, the Leo man that thinks what he does is right and everyone else is wrong. He’s the king remember? Of course he didn’t like being called a coward. The two of you need to sit down and have a real talk without name calling or accusing. You need to tell him how you feel and what you want in a very calm collected way that sounds logical. He needs to also be honest with you in the same way. When you two learn to talk to each other properly, you’ll have less issues like these and you’ll spend more time loving each other. If you need more help, read my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
I met a 40 year old leo man 4 months ago, he was always super attentive to me, he seemed super committed, he even told me that he was coming to visit me soon in the city where I live and that he loved me. That he felt a strong connection and wanted a formal relationship with me. It’s been 8 days since he turned off his cell phone and I haven’t heard from him, he has done it before but not for 8 days always 1 or 3. I never thought that a man of 40 and leo would be such a liar. I’m thinking he just wanted me to watch him masturbate. He has made me feel so used and stupid.
Hi Mia!
Well I think he meant what he said at the time but Leo men get bored and change their minds also. If he isn’t giving you any effort to be in a relationship then he’s all words and not the right one for you. Leo man who is truly engaged with someone in a relationship will put in the effort and time. He’s not doing it. Find someone better… should be pretty easy!
I’ve known my Leo for about a month and he swept me off my feet. I’m an emotionally closed or should I say hard shelled Cancer but he is pushing me to be more affectionate. He’s 36, I’m 33. There are so many beautiful things I want to say to him its just hard but i’ve been trying plus in the beginning he told me he doesn’t do relationships and he doesn’t have emotions (which the emotions part is clearly a lie or defense mechanism). I think he got upset with me the other night because he was hanging out, supposed to come over and I said well you were a no show today and he took that as I said no, even after I told him I didn’t say no but he says he reads in between the lines very well…so whatever he came over and was being nice but the next day he was making small jab remarks. He texted me the next day and said be safe if you go out, so I thought we were all good. I texted him thanks and asked him how he was….NO RESPONSE. I texted him later that day and said that I missed him, he hearted that but again NO RESPONSE. I texted him the next day asking if he was still mad at me and let me clear up the negative energy and why he is giving me the silent treatment (he told me that he does this BUT he wasn’t gonna do it to me anymore). I told him this situation is not all about me, I told him it’s about him too (that night he said I like to have things only my way which really is not true but I can be unknowingly selfish but I’m working on it). I told him that he’s special to me and that I want to continue hanging out with him and getting to know him. That was 2 days ago and he hasn’t said ANYTHING but I know he saw it!! Is he gone for good? His birthday is coming up and I bought him some things but I don’t want to just keep messaging him with no responses. Why is he being so cold over that? I really like him, he talked about us being together and all of that..
Hi Shay!
Communication is a problem between you two and you need to learn how to talk to him the right way so that he knows what you mean and doesn’t get confused. It takes time to learn how to do this properly but you can do it. The thing about Leo man is he can be rather harsh or hot headed when he doesn’t like something and that can scare a tender hearted Cancer off. Reach out to him and say something simple “hope you are well, thought I’d say hi”. He should answer you but if he doesn’t, you need to ask him next what is going on and if he still wants to be with you or not. If you need more help with Leo, please read my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
Hi Anna, I’m an Aries 29yo, I was known this Leo guy 6-7 months ago through work. He’s way younger than me 5-6 years. We ended up having a sweet night cause he feels I was so attractive, after that, he came back to his country tomorrow and we keep chatting for several months due to this pandemic, we can’t meet. Even though we’re in long distance relationship, all of these times were so sweet and feels right, we share the same passionate in bed and planning to have more times together. After he trust me enough, he confessed he has a dark past, he has crazy ex and a daughter already and still in law process. Everything’s fine, I can accept his past. Until a week ago roughly, he seems went a lot of issues with his ex, seems the doctors who check his ex believe everything and telling the court the opposite, since then I was left uninformed, he didn’t have time to contact me, he always in an angry state, but I’m waiting him patiently, I was afraid to disturb him but in the meantime I keep telling him I’m here whenever needed. But suddenly two days ago he ended up everything with me saying he’s not ready for a new relationship until his past done. I completely sad and heartbroken cause he fixed his mind even though I’m trying to speak I’m okay if he needs time. We have even planned everything like he will come again to my country after pandemic, I will come to his house meeting his parents and daughter, we will have a beautiful holiday together, and I’m having a course learning his language to prepare meeting his parents. Now I’m so confused and not willing to do anything, hopeless to the ground cause I don’t know a thing what’s going on, he didn’t let me know. He said he didn’t have time for me as he expected on a relationship should be and it hurts him. He didn’t give me chance to think and wished me the best already. What am I supposed to do? Can I still get back together with him? I’m still hoping small chances cause we will likely able to meet again in the future for work purpose.
HI Stevi!
It sounds like your Leo is in a tough spot and cannot put his full focus on a relationship. It took him for things to happen on his side for him to really realize that. It sounds like he really does care for you but he cannot promise you the relationship at this point due to all the troubles he has. Patience may be all you can do to keep him in your life. If you’d like to learn more about Leo man, please check out my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
Hi
Met an Alpha Leo man in Jan 2020, im a Virgo woman. He’s 33 and I’m 36 or so i tell him!
First meeting at my home we watched a movie+ he ate my roast chicken dinner + met my 8yr daughter. Everything lovely + respectful. Unfortunately Covid-19 separated us but we still texted and he was keen 2 meet up again
It was near his birthday near August 2020 so I came his area for a brief meeting and dropped his gift 2 him- his favourite perfume and chocs. 3rd meeting Sept 2020 we met at hotel + slept in the bed together had fun but no sex . 4th meeting Nov 2020 I went 2 his area again + as he had been ill2 week before, I gave him a new iPhone and chocs (he’s never asked 4 ANY gift ever- I just like 2 give gifts) I have always tried 2 look stunning 4 him as I know Leo man are very visual!
Now I texted him asking him when we going to meet next .he said he doesn’t mind where up2 me
He does work from 7am -7pm most days so can only meet evenings as he gets tired
I just texted him + no reply for 3 days
Wondering is he playing games And if he does like me and see a future ? He did text me that is Loyal + always will be. But he goes cold sometimes just recently.
Hi Aisha!
If you haven’t heard from him in 3 days, text him again and say “Hi, we still getting together?”. I don’t think the Leo is playing games. I think he may actually be quite busy as he says he is. You have to be patient with him but when you don’t hear from him, reach out. He loves attention from you and so he won’t see it as being pushy or needy. Let him know you cannot wait to see him. You may also want to check out my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
Hello. I spoke to a guy for a month. Everything was going really well. Then their was sudden misunderstanding. I told him to take the decision immediately as my parents are looking oder matches for me as well. He felt that I was Pressurrizing him and he said no to me that we won’t go well with each other. I tried to convince him. I told me gimme one more chance. Take your time. But he is not responding to any of my texts. I don’t knw whether he will come back or not.
Hi Neha!
Oops yes, if he feels pressured, he will not respond well. There is no way a Leo man will step up and choose if he’s being told to do so. He wants to do it on his own time and in his own way. That is how Leo operates. He probably thinks now that you aren’t the one for him and is trying to move on. You may try to message him again and explain yourself as far as why you did what you did and that you want to take it slow with him again if he’d be willing to try. Tell him you won’t tell him what to do again. You may also want to read my book “Leo Man Secrets” to help you.
Hi, I fell in love with a Leo man. I’m a 24F Capricorn & He (Leo 34M) is a decade older. Apparently we were going so well in the beginning, talking about marriage (i truly thought there were some sort of commitment there) Towards the end, he started becoming really cold towards me. None of my work/jokes are relevant to him and clearly I got frustrated, I threw a huge tantrum and he said it wounded & scarred him. He said he quit (us), there and then. Are there any chance that he will return to speak to me calmly and clearly? I don’t even know what truly went wrong. Everytime i reached out afterwards was always met with his nasty remarks about how I ruined the relationship and scarred him. No matter how much I try to apologise, get him back, I couldn’t. I would like to know if I should just remain where I am, to move on, or go for a shot at it again? I’m so scared of getting hurt anymore if he doesn’t wishes to communicate why he just lost his feelings for me. If losing feelings caused the break up then I guess he never truly loved me.
Hi Lavelle!
Leo can get to a point where if it’s not about them or has something to do with them, they really don’t want to hear about it. It’s not necessarily right but that seems to be what happens. They get bored. The tantrum probably did freak him out. He’s not good at when someone throws heavy emotions at them. He’s probably afraid you might flip out even worse and try to kill him or something even though you wouldn’t I’m sure. I think you probably need to give him time to breathe and heal. Try to work on yourself a bit and learn how to not react like you did so that if you get a chance again, you won’t repeat the process. You also should learn more about Leo man by reading my books on “Leo Man Secrets”.
Hi.. i’m 33y sagi.I’m divorced but not yet official on papers. I met him 5months ago. He is 35y. We started as friends and later he declared that we are in a relationship. We are good together. I cooked something for his birthday. And since that he keep wanting my cooking. He said he was so comfortable like he can be himself and he feels home when he is with me. He even said i be his mother,his bestfriend, his lover and be his everything. He said he sense i’m just a pure soul. I’m a good woman with a good heart.He just found out he had a child this year. We talk about it quite often. Before he leave to his country for a holiday(where he will meet his child and his baby mama)he just wanna see his child and his family. I told him he might wanna get back to his babymama. He said no. He will be coming back to my country and he will see me. He can never leave me. Infact i cooked and he ate my meal made me i’m special person in his life. We broke off. He asked me to go for another guy. It’s been a month now. He is not blocking me. One day i text him saying hi and he replied me back. Asking how my day and He always prayed and wished all the best for me. A week after i text him again saying i miss him and he replied me he miss me too but he now has a beautiful family. He said if he see any good thing he can do for me from any part of the world. What does that mean?
Hi Anna!
Oh boy. It sounds like your Leo guy is in a family and shouldn’t be talking to anyone else. He’s looking to have a side piece. He wants to basically treat you well, send you gifts, do things for you, etc as long as you stay in his life. It also means that if he’s ever in your area, he will expect that you drop everything to be with him (yes sexually). If I were you, I’d bow out of this one. He sounds like the type of man that could really hurt you.
Hi anna,
I have been with a leo guy for almost 2 yrs but in long distance relationship. We havent met yet probably because of covid. Were on different continent. To make this short, he told me he cannot wait anymore amd he doesnt love me any longer as we recon we still need to wait for 10mos as when there borders will open and gotta meet each other.
Should i move on and forget him or what should i do as i really love him. Im a capricorn woman by the way.
Hi Methu!
Oh my so he was very open with what he felt. In this case I think you probably should let go. Try meeting other people and mingling in your area if you can. That may be better for you. It doesn’t mean go look for love. Love will come to you when it’s time. There is the possibility that he may come back when he’s not getting your attention anymore. That’s how Leo men sometimes play it. Act like you’re moving on and see what he does. If you need more Leo man tips, check out my books on Leo Man Secrets.
At this moment I am sad & I wanna know if my bestfriend is going to come back to me, I had a leo male bestfriend, I knew he liked me cause he told me & I told him I liked him in return. Our communication went bad after that we just kinda were communicating on and off when this happened I tried to end our situation but let him know I still wanted us to be bestfriends to figure each other out more before rushing anything and he stopped me everytime which I allowed cause I do have slight feelings for him he ignored me for 4 days then all of a sudden texted me, so I ignored him for 1 day and now he has blocked me from all social media’s. I just wanna know if he will come back to me a big part of me really cares and wants him to but. Big part of me also thinks it’s for the best & I should just forget about him cause this is what he wanted maybe. I just really feel bad that he did this without talking to me and telling me why he was doing this I didn’t want us to end on a bad note cause I really loved him as my bestfriend. I’m not sure what I should do about it now.
Hi Zee!
I’m sorry you’ve experienced a loss of a Leo man. I know that’s very difficult. I think what you need to do is tell him that the two of you need to sit down in person and talk things over because something is still not being communicated between you and until that happens, this is going to be up in the air. I think there is opportunity but you two have to talk it out.. not via text or a phone. If you’d like to know more about Leo man, check out my books on Leo Man Secrets!
I’m an Aries and my boyfriend is a Leo.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4–5 months and we basically hung out and were together everyday. After the 4–5 months together he moved 2 hours away but we wanted to continue our relationship to see how things would go. Well he invited me to a wedding and before he confirmed the wedding plans, my friends invited me on a trip with them. When he did confirm them, I told him I might have to leave the wedding a little early because of the trip. But then I told him if he wanted me to stay then I would, and he told me to go if I wanted. He even offered a voucher to help pay for my flight. In my mind, I really wanted to stay with him but then I didn’t want to let my friends down.
Well the weekend after he moves 2 hours away, we went to the wedding and we’re having a great time. Then a little bit after they finished cutting the cake, I smiled at him and told him I had to go. He looks at me and just says “Okay, bye.” I can tell he is mad at me so I start to panic. I decide to get up and start walking out. I don’t know where my car is and it is dark out so I started to panic even more. I decided to text him and started getting sad because he didn’t even get up to walk me out. He quickly walks up to walk me out to my car, and we start bickering. We finally make up and kiss each other good bye.
He then ignores me the entire time I’m in Vegas. When I get back he’s distant and cold towards me, and tells me I should’ve known to stay. I told him that I wanted to but he should’ve communicated to me what he really wanted.
After a few days he finally texts me and says he needs space, and he thinks we should break up. Because (1) of the wedding (2) he’s stressed about his new job, which turned out to be a bad choice and he’s been really depressed about it (3) he’s Indian and he doesn’t know if we would work long term because of his parents (4) our relationship moved so fast and he couldn’t stop the flow.
But a month prior to the wedding, when he visited his parents, he told them an Indian girl may not be for him to get them used to the idea. I also know he’s been stressed about his new job so I was always there to help him cope.
After he told me he wanted to break up he kept on texting me like normal. But I was in a lot of pain. So I ended up telling him it would be best for me to go away, and that I know he will do very well with everything.
I guess I still don’t understand.
Hi Elle!
Leo men require lots of attention otherwise they don’t stick around. In his mind is what he told you which is that you should have known to stay without him telling you. The truth is, he needs to communicate these things instead of getting upset. He was immature in his response in telling you to go if you want. He didn’t want that and he should have told you that. That’s on him. He does sound stressed so what I think you should do is let him do all the initiating when it comes to communication. He probably just needs a bit of space. When you’re not initiating, you’re letting him know you’re not sitting around waiting for him. This actually makes him want to chase you because he will miss your attention. I know it sounds messed up but that’s how Leo men operate sweetheart. If you need more tips, check out my Leo guides on Leo Man Secrets. I wish you the best!
I am 26 yr old Aries girl and this guy I met is a 30 yrs old Leo man.
We first started off on instagram where he would just comment on my stories and we went from there to the point if meeting up, talking, hanging out, hooking up. We talked almost a year and everything went well. I was aware he had a girlfriend but they were not in good term like their relationship was on and off (open relationship). Anyways, one day I went out for my girl friends birthday and tagged her. He ended up following her and this got me messed up bc I don’t feel comfortable him being around my close friends or have any sort of relationship/friendship with them. (Im a very very private person where I don’t talk about my relationships or anything related to it.) i confronted him and he pulled a trigger point where he said “I can follow or talk to anyone I want” which was an instead red flag to me because this is not some random person. This is my friend he was following. Then I answered him with some nasty stuff like “oh if you can follow/talk to my friends then i dont see a problem me doing it” which this made him mad and started coming after me with some none sense like “you will never find someone like me”. This instantly sounded like an insecurity to me for him to come out and tell me this. Anyways, fast forwarding this we didnt talk for a couple weeks then started talking again and i dont know how. We met up and had hooked up in a hotel. 2 weeks after that, he came to tell me that he broke up with his so called “girlfriend (open relationship)”. I asked him why what happened and he didn’t want to discuss it. Anyways, throughout the past couple days we’ve been talking sexually and he wanted to meet up with again. He flaked on me 3 times……. Mind you this is him initiating that he wants to meet up but flaking last second so for the 4th time he tried it again and i decided to confront him and I called him “childish” which I have 0 regrets for calling him that because I don’t time or energy to play games where it is unnecessary to begin with. He was apparently drunk at that time and didn’t want to drive. He told me he wasn’t going to write to me again and said “watch” then he said not to contact him again and then blocked me. I’ve been blocked for over 3 weeks now and I did start thinking to myself where I went wrong. I knew I had valid reasons but I didn’t clarify it to him. I don’t run after a guy either. But I do want to understand what his game here is… is he completely done with me or he just going back into his shell because I bruised his ego? I am a really blunt person and I can easily get under someones skin if my buttons are pushed which he ended up doing. I do not feel bad either. I do miss him though and I do not want to lie about it. This was more like a friends with benefits relationship. Any pointers would be appreciative. Thank you.
Hi Cee!
A Leo man will take whatever attention he can get wherever. He knows you’ll pay him attention so when his ego is feeling down, he will come to you to lift him back up. Here’s my advice… stop initiating anything with him. Make him chase you down if he wants you. Be too busy for him. You’ll find out real quick whether he’s legitimate in liking you or if he’s just messing with you. Keep your head up! I wish you all the luck of the universe!
Hello Anna. I am a Scorpio 31, my bf 32 Leo. We met online and start dating since February. We were always long distance, started off about 40-60min apart, which isn’t too bad. We would go out every 1-2 weeks, sometimes longer when we’re busy with work. But it was always me driving to his city and never him coming to mine. I didn’t mind back then because there are more things to do in his city and he pays for the expenses most of the time.
In the end of July, I had to move 4-5 hours away from him for school. He knew that all along, he promised to visit me and took me to a fancy steakhouse before I left.
It’s been 3 months since I moved and he just never made a solid plan to visit me. Ever since I moved, he barely calls, barely texts. Many times I feel like I was being ignored. I called him out many times and he said he’s just been busy and will try to not ignore me.
We haven’t seen each other for over 3 months. The week before my bday, we finally discussed making plans for him to visit me. Then he told me “So if i visit you, you’ll never bug me about visiting you again.” I was hurt and angry, I gave him an ultimatum and told him to think about if I were never the one always visiting him, would our relationship come this far? He said “No idea”. I told him to think about it and let me know if he wants a serious relationship or not, because most likely we’ll always be long distance unless we move in together. Our relationship won’t work if he’s not willing to put any effort.
After that ultimatum, we went no contact for 5 days. I texted him to give me an answer. I asked him if he still wants a relationship with me? “Sometimes.” If he wants to breakup? “I don’t know.” Do you want this to work? “Of course.” He said he still loves me but this long distance has problems. In my mind was thinking because he wouldn’t put any effort to it, he’s doing less than the bare minimum. I told him how hurt I felt. He told me “Then let’s take a break. See if we’ll miss each other. You can focus on you and i can focus myself. If what we have is true and pure……then it’ll draw back together.” I said I respect him. He said “I love you.” I said take care and he said “bye bye”.
It has been no contact since then, he didn’t call nor text me on my bday at all. I was very disappointed and hurt. I want to know if this means breakup just in a nicer way? I’m confused because if he wanted to breakup he would’ve just said so right? Let me know what you think…
Anyways right now I’m just focusing on myself because with or without him, life still goes on. I guess I just want to clear that confusion out.
My sister got hurt by a Leo man. He is the one who cheated and broke up because she confronted him after going through his phone when she got the proofs of him emotionally cheating deeply with an older woman than my sister. She was the first girl to drive his car and use his credit card between all the girls he dated.
The way he looks at her and touch her was obvious that his was crazy about her but I knew he was intrigues by the independence of my sister as she never complain and let him be free. I know she slowed down on giving him attention and affection like in the beginning but she was always there for him. I once saw him be aggressive when other guys who tried to talk to my sister when we go out while they were dating. Worst this Leo man never apologized and kept denying and dumper my sister.
This breakup was very painful for her.
So I wanted to know if it’s worth going back with him because I wanted to convince her to contact him but she’s strong on never reaching out to him for the disrespect he gave her. Just trying to help as all the guys who were pursuing her are now back on strong speed toward her so I wanted her to reach out to him before to entertain or going out with another guys. My sister read a lot of your books specifically the manifestation and etc…Please what do I do to help my sister Anna. thanks