Is Leo Man Possessive And Controlling In A Relationship? Find Out Here

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Have you started to recently date or talk to a Leo man and are wondering is the Leo man possessive and controlling? Keep reading to find out.

Have you recently started to date or talk to a Leo man and are wondering what is behind your Leo man possessive and controlling behavior? Is he the type that will give you a hard time because you are friends with guys? What happens when a Leo man gets jealous? Will he hate your best friend, who happens to be male?

The Leo man in all his glory is something to behold. He is loving, warm, and super charming. However, he has some negative traits you need to be aware of. If you know ahead of time, you can avoid a possible train wreck or heartbreak with him.

Knowing a Leo man a bit ahead of time can help you know how best to handle a relationship with him. Keep reading for things you should look out for in regard to Leo man jealous and possessive behavior.

Are Leo Men Possessive And Controlling?

The Leo man is proud, and sometimes that pride very much reflects his self-centered side. He has a big ego and is a bit narcissistic. He’s vain, and he knows he looks good. You’ll catch him looking in the mirror at himself often.

He seeks attention. He needs to feel respected, appreciated, or loved, and therefore be emotionally protected. More than any other astrological sign, a Leo man needs to be praised by his special woman so he can feel special too.

Not showing your Leo man the attention he seeks may easily lead him to jealous and possessive behavior. Discover here how to compliment your Leo man <<

At times, a Leo man sees his partner as a possession and thus becomes possessive and controlling about what is his. He needs constant reassurance from his partner so that he doesn’t go overboard.

How Does Leo Man Act When Jealous?

Keep in mind that no one is perfect, and even though the Leo man seems almost like he is, trust me when I tell you, he has a darker side too that comes out from time to time.

Leo man jealousy is easily noticeable. When jealous, a Leo man acts possessive of you, wants to be informed about everything happening around you, wants to keep you away from your friends, and may become very protective and affectionate.

He may also become confrontational and argue a lot, proving his point. Naturally, a Leo man will try to hide his jealousy because it makes him feel vulnerable.

There definitely has to be a balance for him, which is why he tends to seek attention from you, and the outcome will not be positive if you don’t supply him with what he craves.

Learn more about Leo man hot and cold game here <<

5 Surefire Signs A Leo Man Is Jealous

He Asks Too Many Questions

You are opening up your phone and looking at a social network or text messages and he’s looming over your shoulder trying to see what you’re doing. If a guy comments or texts you, he asks you who that is and how close you are to him.

Maybe your best friend is a dude you’ve known for many years. Your Leo man suddenly has an issue with the fact that you aren’t besties with a female. He starts taking digs at your best friend or tells you he’s not comfortable with your friendship.

You notice that you cannot make a call or text message to any friends without him asking who you’re talking to. This type of paranoia comes when he knows that you’re friends with other guys.

He will not like it that you’re friends with ANY guys at all. Whether they’re close friends or just people you hang out with once in a while. You’ll notice how many questions he asks you when it’s really none of his business.

He Tries To Monopolize Your Time

When Leo man is deeply involved with you, he may try to keep you with him as often as possible. Though he loves independence, he also wants to know where you are at all times.

He comes off as paranoid really and this could be uncomfortable if you’re not familiar with this type of thing. Understand that when you’re not with him, he worries.

It’s not always a worry that you’ll leave him or cheat on him. Some of it is genuine concern for your safety and well being. This is why he’ll ask you to text him when you get to where you are going or when you arrive home.

If you find that he’s trying to keep you all to himself, this is his jealousy and possessive side coming out. He doesn’t want to share you with anyone else thus keeping you close.

He Needs Constant Reassurance

When you find yourself constantly reminding him that he’s the only one and that your guy friends are no threat to him, you may have a very jealous Leo man on your hands.

He’ll make it seem as though you aren’t paying enough attention to him or he’ll do things to distract you from talking to your friends. When your girlfriends call he doesn’t bat an eyelash. When a guy calls, he’s next to you in seconds.

You find yourself telling him how amazing he is, no one can take his place, and that there isn’t anyone else on earth you’d want to spend your life with. When you have to do this all the time, it gets old and is proof that he’s insecure.

Insecurity breeds jealous and possessive behavior. Leo sees his woman as a possession at times and thus becomes territorial about what is his. He needs constant reassurance from his partner so that he doesn’t go overboard.

Here’s more about Leo man likes and dislikes in a woman <<

Shows Up Unexpectedly

If your Leo man suspects something fishy is going on or that there are too many males that are pining for your attention, he may show up at where you told him you were going to hang out with some friends.

He may hang back and watch for a while or then again, he may walk up and act like he bumped into you so that he can make his presence known and effectively mark his territory so to speak.

Leo man wants everyone you hang out with to know that you are HIS and no one had better try getting in between or they will regret it. If your Leo man shows up where he knows you’ll be, he’s checking up on you.

If not checking up on you, he wants to see who you’re hanging out with and make darned sure that they aren’t trying to steal you away from him or convince you that you should leave. Remember that Leo men are Lions, they like to stalk.

He Gets Sneaky And Underhanded

Your Leo man may decide to throw a party at his place and invite all your friends over so that he can meet them all and size the guys up. He wants to see who they are, what they are to, what they think of you, and if they are a possible threat.

He will also do this to flex his muscle to let your friends know you are HIS and that they had better not try any funny business. He’ll do this in a way that won’t be too obvious to everyone.

Leo will approach anyone he perceives as a possible threat and make sure he talks to that person a lot. He’ll talk about his relationship with you and what he’d do if he ever lost you or found out anything happened to you.

It’s almost like the over protective dad that makes it perfectly clear that if anything at all happens to you, he’ll be all over them. It’s very similar to this. He also wants to show off who he is and what he offers you.

In other words he wants them to see “I have everything she wants, you have nothing” without saying a word. He’ll brag about your times together and how much your future means to him.

He will say some sweet things too so don’t think that he’s only doing this to scare people off. He’ll want to brag and show your friends that he’s a good guy and that he’s going to take excellent care of you. His main intention though is to size your friends up.

What Happens When A Leo Man Gets Jealous — The Next Steps

Leo man controlling and jealous behavior should be handled with care and understanding. He needs lots and lots of reassurance.

So, first things first: assure him of your love. He wants your attention and affection. That will make him feel powerful and strong. A Leo man seeks recognition and likes to be the center of attention.

Prestige matters to him; his reputation and the way other people see him are of great importance to him. So if you see your Leo man acting jealous, you need to convince him that he is the only man for you and that you love him immensely.

Be honest, and he will appreciate it. Leo man possessive behavior can be easily navigated. All you need to do is show him your loyalty by being faithful and committed to the relationship.

Last but not least, give him space to vent. He can be intense and passionate and occasionally needs time alone to calm down. Be patient and understanding. Keep your emotions in check; don’t overreact, but try to understand the reason for such behavior.

If you’re struggling to find the right way to make him open up and share his true feelings with you, I strongly recommend checking out my Magic Phrases for Leo Man … It will set you on the right path with your Leo guy!

FAQ About Leo Man Jealousy

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Leo man and how this will affect your relationship?

Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Leo man.

Do Leo Men Get Jealous Easily? 

Yes! You cannot believe how often this happens! If a Leo man feels that something is his, he will dislike other people stepping into his territory.

He easily displays his jealousy, most of the time verbally, in a passionate and dramatic way. If he doubts your faithfulness, he will become insanely jealous, so don’t give him a reason not to trust you.

Will A Leo Man Try To Make You Jealous?

Yes, he does it intentionally to hurt you or to spice things up in your relationship by adding a bit of excitement and passion.

Please note that if a Leo man is trying to make you jealous, it is a clear indication that he is jealous. He may even enjoy the company of other women just to hide his insecurities, but don’t pay attention because the higher cause is not to cheat on you but to make you worry about his intentions.

How Do You Know If A Leo Man Cares About You?

The Leo man wants you to think highly of him. This means that he will romance you to the moon and back. This includes a candlelit dinner, dancing, going to a movie, or perhaps a picnic.

If you’re into the type of guy that brings you flowers out of nowhere for no particular reason, the Leo man is that guy. He may also surprise you with a gift of something you mentioned you wanted but didn’t think he was paying attention to. These are clear indicators that he cares about you.

As you can see, there are some really endearing qualities about the Leo man that are worth getting involved with. Jealousy and possessiveness aren’t things to be ignored; they are things that can be worked past with the right partner.

Stop Worrying About Your Leo Man…

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Leo man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there with many of my friends dating Leo guys. I remember my very close friend crying herself to sleep at night, worried that her man would never commit to her.

She lost sleep, time, and even work hours, all because she couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart and get him to commit.

As a friend, it was hard to watch her go through that. But I knew how good he was for her, and I didn’t want her to give up on him.

Even when our other friends were telling her to move on, I could see that he was the most incredible man she had ever met.

How could she just give up on that?

But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work…

She had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<

And it worked!! So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Leo man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

>> Go here now and learn how to speak Leo man’s love language.

xoxo, Anna

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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