A Leo Man’s Hot And Cold Behavior – 6 Ways To Make Him Commit To You

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
You’ve noticed a really hot Leo guy flirting with you but you just aren’t sure if he’s interested?! Here are 6 major signs a Leo man is interested in you.

You’ve probably heard how amazing it is to date a Leo man. That he’s romantic, devoted, and caring… And this confuses you because all you’ve experienced from him is this hot and cold behavior.

Your Leo man is hot and cold all the time. One minute he’s all over you and wants to spend so much time with you and the next it seems like he can’t stand the sight of you. It is incredibly confusing and makes you rather anxious – I don’t blame you for feeling this way!

So why do some Leo men act hot and cold, and is there anything you can do about it? Absolutely! There are some surefire ways to get a hot and cold Leo man to commit to you. So, if you’re interested in finding out more, then please keep on reading. You don’t want to miss out on this!

6 Ways To Make Him Commit To You

1. Compliment Your Leo Man

It is possible that your Leo man is acting hot and cold with you because he doesn’t feel like you appreciate him enough. It is so important to feed into a Leo man’s ego or else he will just lose interest and move on to the next person.

You want to compliment your Leo man and let him know what you like about him. He needs this reassurance to be sure that you’re actually interested in him or else he quickly tends to lose interest and detaches himself.

If he does something you enjoy or appreciate about him, then be sure to tell him because if you don’t your Leo man is going to go hot and cold. Give him attention and compliments, and it should all work out alright.

Make him feel like he is the most wonderful person to ever exist. A Leo man needs positive reinforcement all the time, so you better give it to him!

2. Show Your Leo Man Affection

leo man hot and cold behavior

Leo men need a lot of affection in their life and if they don’t get it, they might think that you are not interested. When a Leo man doesn’t get enough love and affection, he usually turns quite cold.

A Leo man is passionate and needs the flames of desire to continuously burn or else he quickly loses interest, unfortunately. This can be tough for a woman who isn’t particularly affectionate, but if you think your Leo man is worth it, then I would lay the kisses on thick.

Cuddle him, hug him, kiss him, and tell him how much he means to you. He needs all of this to feel truly wanted by his partner. Without it, he really doesn’t see the point and will look for this affection elsewhere.

3. Text Your Leo Man

Leo men love attention and having a woman put in effort for them. It means a lot to a Leo man if you text him something sweet to make him think of you. He might be going hot and cold because you don’t communicate with him enough.

Text him good morning or good evening so that he knows that you are on his mind. If he thinks you’re not interested then he isn’t going to make the effort with you either. He wants the same kind of input from you.

So, if you’re thinking of him, let him know with a text! And see how he responds. But I wouldn’t double text him because he is also quite independent and doesn’t like it when a woman is too needy with him.

3. Flirt With Your Leo Man

Leo men love everything about dating and how thrilling it is to first fall in love with someone. His favorite part of it all has to be flirting and planting the seeds of interest with each other. Unfortunately, this tends to fade over time and this is when a Leo man will start to go distant.

For a Leo man to stay hot and bothered, you need to keep the passion alive and you can do this by remembering to flirt with him. Say something suggestive, play coy, and tease him a bit. This should make him geared to go again.

A Leo man loves it when a woman can be playful and have fun, so don’t forget this side of yourself! A Leo man wants to see this in you to keep him interested.

4. Play Hard To Get With Your Leo Man

Cheerful group of friends - Signs a Leo Man is Interested In you

If your Leo man is acting hot and cold with you, then this is a very good chance that he might be playing hard to get with you. He knows that this trick works and probably makes you desire him more.

So why not turn the tables on him and give him a taste of his own medicine? I suggest playing hard to get with him, stop being so available and fill your life with a bunch of fun and exciting activities to get your mind off of him.

This will definitely help to pique and interest in you again and wonder where you have disappeared to. Make yourself scarce and show him that you can very well live a life without him. This will drive him wild and make him want to commit to you.

5. Be Sexually Open With Your Leo Man

Sex is a major deal for a Leo man. He needs a lot of it to feel truly connected to the woman he is in a relationship with. If a Leo man doesn’t get enough sex, it means he doesn’t feel enough passion in his life and this is the air he breathes!

If you aren’t fulfilling your Leo man’s sexual needs, then of course he is going to go cold. He needs more from you. So, if you want him to commit to you, you might want to feel more comfortable exploring your sexual side with him.

Ask your Leo man how you can help fulfill his fantasies and what he needs from you on a sexual level. This is a great way for the two of you to work on your communication and build a deeper and more meaningful connection with one another.

Of course, never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, but try to be open-minded and see where that brings you in the relationship and if he stops being so hot and cold all of the time.

Leo Man Turn-Offs

If your Leo man is acting hot and cold then there are a few things you need to be aware of not to do because you might subconsciously turn him off with your behavior. Here are some things you need to take note of:

  • He hates it when a woman ignores him. He sees this as childish and immature, and like she is unable to communicate properly.
  • A Leo man finds it a turn-off when a woman is too available for him. He wants to be with a woman who adores him but has her own life that makes her happy.
  • He is quite the proud man, so he finds it a turn-off when a woman tries to make him jealous by comparing him to another man.
  • A Leo man is naturally positive and optimistic, and he really dislikes it when the woman he is with is negative and always tries to bring him down.

Read next: 5 Turn-Offs That Make a Good Leo Man Leave a Great Woman

Signs A Leo Man Is Keen On You

1. He Makes An Effort To Communicate

A Leo man will find excuses to talk to you. If you work together, he’ll come by your desk more often and find things to talk about just to be near you. If you don’t work together but have met in another way, then he’ll figure out where you’re going to be and show up there.

You’ll notice this Leo guy popping up everywhere you turn because, in some way, he’s trying to hint that he likes you and hopes that you give him a sign back that you’re interested. Make sure you let him know if that is the case.

Leo men can talk about almost anything. You’ll notice that he’s super talkative around you more than he may be around others. When he likes someone, he wants to be closer.

He’ll talk to you about issues he has just to see how you respond. If you show support and are nice about it, he’ll figure you’re a good catch. Give him good advice, and he’ll think about trying to get closer to you.

2. He Is Excited When He Spends Time With You

How To Compliment A Leo Man

The Leo man is already fairly optimistic. However, when he’s around a woman he likes, he’ll become super hyper and positive about life. Whatever topic of conversation that has been started, he’ll put a very positive spin on it.

He wants to impress you and show you that he can make your life easier, and more pleasant and that it’s fun to be around him. He’ll take a negative situation and turn it around right before your eyes.

Your Leo guy wants to show you how optimistic he can be and that he’ll always support you if you allow him into your life. Basically, he’s showing you what he has to offer you should you accept his “offer.”

Naturally, if you are interested in him, let him in on the fact that you’re digging him. Eat up his enthusiasm and tell him how grateful you are to have someone so positive around you. He’ll love it!

3. Brings You Gifts Or Does Special Things

If you suddenly receive flowers, he likes you. If he brings you a tasty treat to your desk or where you work, he likes you. Should you find a sweet note left on your car to tell you simply to have a good day, he’s not just being nice – he likes you!

Leo men like to show the women they like that they care. Even when they’re not in love yet, they will still show a certain level of affection for the woman they’re interested in forming a bond with.

Whether you work together, live near each other, or have mutual friends, he will find a way to give you something in order to impress you and let you know that he’s interested.

Typically, these gifts will come with a sweet comment or a look that sends goosebumps down your spine (in a good way not in a nut job way!). You’ll feel something you’ve never felt before and it will be glorious!

4. He Puts On The Charm

Hot And Cold Leo Man

When a Leo man is interested in a woman, he knows how to romance her and make himself obvious. He IS the guy that will reach and brush your hair behind your ears much like in the movies.

This guy will reach out and touch your hand, arm, or shoulder while he’s talking to you. If he notices you are tense, he may actually offer you a shoulder massage to help ease your tension.

Leo is typically not a reserved type of guy. He sees what he wants and he goes for it. This includes when he finds interest in someone. Don’t be surprised if out of left field he shows up where you are to see how you’re doing.

5. He Wants To Spend Time With You

If you find yourself out with friends or family and you run into this Leo man, he’ll come over and become the life of your “party.” He will win over your friends or family in a heartbeat.

He’ll also try as hard as he can to make you laugh or smile. It’ll seem as though he’s tuned in to you and knows what you need and/or want at that moment. Leo wants you to have a good time around him.

He can be a spontaneous person when he likes someone and so you never really know when he may pop up while you’re out. Leo does his research because hey, he knows it’s worth the risk.

Above all else, the Leo man is not one to hold back typically. If he likes someone, he knows he had better go for it or he may lose out. So, he’ll absolutely pursue you with everything he’s got.

He will be obvious rather than coy. Leo will want to be near you, he will want to talk to you, he will want to take you out. He wants you to feel comfortable and easygoing with him.

Take the Leo man at face value. A flirt is just a flirt and typically when he’s just playing and not being serious, he’ll leave it alone after having been flirtatious. When he doesn’t leave it alone, he’s in deeper and wants more.

If you find him flirting with you every time he comes around you, he likes you and you should probably find a way to let him know you like him too. Leo men treat their women like princesses.

What Should You Do Next?

Getting a Leo man to commit to you really isn’t difficult, all you really need to do is play by his rules and he’ll remain faithful to you. He needs a lot of love and affection, but he also needs space to do his own thing.

Try out all of these options and see if things improve with him, and if they don’t, he might just not be the right man for you! So on to the next one who treats you like a queen.

It is pretty simple to keep your Leo man hooked! Just follow all of these tips and he’ll be eating putty out of your hands! Good luck!

Making a Leo man fall in love with you is pretty simple.

But keeping him interested is another story…

He is a straightforward guy.

Being with a Leo man can be a totally new experience, he is so exciting and loving to be around.

You have never felt like this about anyone!

This man speaks to your soul, and you feel such a deep connection with him.

These men are some of the most desirable in the whole Zodiac.

He is sexy, smart, and incredibly devoted.

So, it makes sense why you are so drawn to your Leo man.

He makes you feel like the most amazing woman in the world,

However, things seem to be going askew with the two of you…

But how can you know what went wrong?

What did you do?

There is so much to uncover when you make your Leo man angry…

It is like he becomes a different person, totally unwilling to forgive you…

It is crucial that you understand what you need to avoid so that you don’t make your Leo man angry…

You love him so much, and this is the last thing you wanted to happen…

It is such a pity that recently it seems like he has been trying to avoid you.

You once thought he was in love with you, but suddenly he is acting all strange…

Whenever you reach out and try to speak to him you are met with silence or short replies…

The faster he pulls away the more it just breaks your heart…

You just can’t seem to understand why your Leo man keeps ignoring you.

You are sure that you didn’t do something wrong!

And when you ask him, he says it is nothing…

But you know deep down in your gut that this just isn’t true…

Why can’t he just be honest with you so that you can fix it?

He is pulling away, and you know it…

If only there was something you could do to repair the relationship to its former glory.

You would do anything in the world to have your Leo man look at you the way he once did.

You love him with all your heart and you want to fix what is broken.

< — click here for more information

There are definitely ways that you can turn all of this around and make your Leo man putty in your hands.

However, you need to be ready to commit to this change because once it has been made, then there is no going back

There is so much you still have to learn about Leo men and the way they respond to love and romance.

And you deserve to know this information because it can be invaluable in the way you show up in your relationships.

The relationship you have always wanted is at your fingertips…

It just depends on you if you are ready to reach out and grab it.

< — Click here to find out more on how to get the most amazing relationship with your Leo man

Wishing you so much love and happiness.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *