If you’re dating a Leo man and you’re not feeling as fired up about your romance as usual, you’re probably wondering how you can switch the vibe up ASAP. How do you make the Leo passionate about your romance? Are there tactics that work well to interest the Leo man?
I’m Anna Kovach, a long-time Relationship Astrologer. I have a passion for assisting women to activate the love potential of themselves, their partners, and their relationship overall. There is little more that I love to see than a flat relationship being pumped up into something spectacular!
When you’re talking about a Leo man, there are a few surefire tips that I have gathered to open him up to more intrigue and spice in the relationship. Are you ready to elevate your partnership to a passionate and fiery love affair? If so, check out my tried-and-true tips down below to capture the warmth and engagement of the Leo man.
4 Ways To Spice Up Your Love Life With A Leo Man
1. Play Flirty Games
Leo is a cheeseball. There’s no getting around it. It’s part of his charm though, so I know that you appreciate this side of him. He likes to mess around, hence his notorious boyish sense of humor.
Due to Leo’s childish nature, we know that he is inclined to turn everything into a game. This can be frustrating when it’s your relationship on the line! Despite this, it’s important to utilize Leo’s natural tendencies. This is why playing games to improve your love life is a great bet, in my experience.
Leo’s also love love. This is why combining lighthearted games and romance is a great way to add some sauciness to your relationship. Sexy dice, couple’s truth or dare, and naked Twister are all great games that will speak to the childlike part of your Leo while inviting him to get more passionate about your relationship.
I suggest that you bring out the game when you’re bored to liven things up. It might also be a good way to break the tension after a fight. Another pro tip is to let the Leo win sometimes! That opportunity to bolster his confidence will make him feel like celebrating with you, likely in a sexy way.
2. Make Sex A Topic Of Conversation
Ever get to the point with your Leo where sex is just flung to the wayside? No shame in that, it’s happened to the best of us. However, that doesn’t mean it can’t have you wondering how to make it a bigger focus in your relationship.
Leos are ruled by the Sun, the most luminous body in our sky. As a result, they like to cast a light on things. What is hidden away from sight is not going to speak to them. They vibe a lot more with topics that don’t have an air of heaviness surrounding them. Light, bright, and bold is the Leo way of life.
If you want your Leo to be more into sex, then remove the taboo. After sex, try telling the Leo what you enjoyed in a coy way. Ask him what his favorite part of sex with you is. Ask him what thoughts he pleasures himself with. It can be strange at first, if this isn’t normal for the two of you. Once the stigma is broken down around the sex then the Leo feels freer to let you know his scandalous desires!
Keep the focus on the positives of sex. Instead of telling the Leo where he is failing, make it more about emphasizing what he’s great at. Ask that he take the same approach with you. When there is no fear of judgement the sexy convos can flow, and I’ll guarantee things are going to get spicier real quick, babe!
3. Assume The Best Of Him
In a relationship, you have 50% of the influence. You hold a huge stake here! Your approach to love is powerful, and can impact the passion that is flowing between you both. This is why it’s important to ensure there are no blocks between you and your Leo lover. Blocks arise when there is judgement between the partners.
This is exactly why you need to ditch all of your assumptions about your Leo guy. Leo operates best when he is being seen for all of his goodness, not nitpicked for his flaws. Leo subconsciously views himself as a King and wants nothing more than adoration and to be seen for his positive qualities. Especially with you!
My suggestion is to turn every negative thought about Leo on its head. Start paying attention to all of the negative things you assume you know about him. If you think he’s lazy, try thinking of him as a work in progress instead of a fixed object. He does have the power to rise to the occasion for you, but only if he’s bolstered by your support.
Remember, a Leo will match what your assumption of him is. He will shine as brightly as you believe he can. When he is enabled by his partner to be the best version of himself, he is feeling confident enough to sweep you off your feet. A Leo who feels the love is going to give it right back. You’ll find your love life heating up fast with this little internal exercise!
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4. Have Fun Dates As Often As Possible
Leo is ruled by the Sun, making him as impossible to ignore as that brilliant orb in the sky. As a result, Leo likes to be where the people are. They enjoy being the center of attention. In addition, they love to show off! It’s important to activate this aspect of the Leo to increase his loving engagements with you.
I always recommend that you and your Leo get out and be seen. He’ll love showing you off and you’ll feel like a queen with your king when you’re out on the town. Heavily frequented and popular spots are a good bet. Bars are a great place to bring a Leo since inhibitions are lowered and he can be in his fiery element.
It’s also a good idea to consider where the Leo could show off his skills. If your Leo is athletic, consider a rock-climbing wall where he can (literally) come out on top. Karaoke is a great bet as well, since every Leo has a diva inside of them.
Leos usually have a soft spot for movies and theater too. Anything with a relatable hero is going to trip the Leo’s trigger. Keep it fun, light, but… maybe a little over the top. Superhero movies were made for Leos!
Are you dating a Leo man? If so, how will you incorporate my advice to power up your romance together? Do you already have any techniques that work wonders for you? Share the knowledge in the comments below! I am dying to know what works for you.
If you’re looking to grow your love with Leo guy to greater heights, then check out my guide Forever Love With A Leo Man to find out how to sustain your love with him for all time!
Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,