Are you wondering why a Leo man pulls away? Leo man who normally seems to be very loving and warm but suddenly is giving you the silent treatment? Perhaps he’s just not being as cuddly and affectionate as he used to be. There is nothing worse than a distant or silent Leo man.
This is such a painful experience to have to go through, especially when you are so deeply in love with this person and just want the relationship to work out!
There could be many reasons why your Leo man acts this way. It might not be what you think at all!
Let us explore all the reasons why a Leo man could be distant and what exactly you can do about it. Continue reading if you would like to find out more information about why a Leo man pulls away!
What Does It Mean When A Leo Man Is Quiet
Leo men are very passionate, which makes their anger flare up. They emotionally lash out, and sometimes this makes them become silent, cold, or change their behavior toward you.
When a Leo man goes quiet, you’re going to need to look at what’s happened recently, if anything. Has there been something building that he just cannot cope with regarding your relationship?
Has everything gone relatively normal between the two of you, but he seems to be “off” when he’s around as though something is bothering him? Maybe he’s stressed out about something not related to you.
The thing about Leo men is that they are moody and can get very upset about what we perceive as small things. To them, it’s a big ordeal, and they’re reacting to it. It could be something very simple that he’s overcomplicated.
Knowing what his temperament is like, can you tell the difference between him being in a bad mood, being depressed, or just being upset with you? That’s what you have to figure out before you can truly pin down what to do about it.
4 Possible Reasons Why A Leo Man Pulls Away
He Had A Bad Day Or Week
If the Leo guy is having a hard time dealing with something going on in his life, he’ll often go quiet. He doesn’t want to go off the rails on a tirade. If he isn’t too close to you, he’s not going to want to open up to you about it.
Only when Leo feels he can absolutely trust his partner will he open up and discuss what’s going on and why he’s having a hard time. He would not want anyone to see him as weak or unable to handle things.
He certainly wouldn’t want a lady he’s interested in thinking he can’t handle a bad day, so he’ll just go quiet and try to work things out on his own. This can sometimes mean a Leo man ignoring your texts or calls.
If it’s only hours or days, try not to take it too personally. He needs a little space here and there to take care of his own issues. It’s a very normal thing, and likely, if it’s not you that’s the problem, he’ll end up letting you know when he is ready.
Sometimes he can be dealing with some crappy work situations that he just doesn’t want to discuss. He may also have family problems and doesn’t want to open up about them because he’s not that serious with you yet.
He will talk to you when or if he’s ready, and you shouldn’t worry about it. Only when it lasts longer and he’s not talking to you should you consider worrying that it’s something relative to you. So, don’t worry if a Leo man is acting distant right away; be patient.
Find out the ways to get your Leo man to open up and share his true feelings with you <<
He Had A Bad Day At Work
It is not easy for everyone to deal with setbacks and bad days at work, especially for a Leo man. He may not share this with you and, most likely, will leave you guessing.
Don’t go that way because your imagination will be plotting against you while, in fact, the reason why Leo man pulls away is simple and doesn’t involve you at all.
In times like these, you should leave him to reflect on his situation, perhaps take a break, and process it alone.
Chances are, if he’s dealing with other things in his life, it could just be something that has nothing to do with you. If you don’t ask him what is going on, you won’t know, and you’ll act offended and hurt.
Leo man has a strong ego that would make him occasionally withdraw and heal. If he is overwhelmed and goes silent, tell him you will be there for him if he needs you, but that is it. Step back, don’t initiate the conversation, don’t be demanding, and don’t assume everything is about you!
There is always a reason why a Leo man is hot and cold, but at times like these, you should give him some space.
Leo men are sensitive and may retreat into silence when they are upset or hurt. What matters to you is being patient and understanding.
His Feelings Are Hurt, His Pride Is Wounded
Whether it was you or someone else, the Leo guy could be withdrawing because he took a hit to his ego or pride. This would mean someone told him he’s not all that or that he’s not as good as he thinks he is.
This may have been you in an argument or it may have been someone else that he thought he could rely on. When Leo’s pride is tampered with, he will pull back and will retreat.
If it was you who wounded him, you’re going to have to apologize and tell him that you still care deeply for him. This will work if you didn’t really mean it. If you tell him that with insincerity though, he’ll read you like a book and he’ll break it off.
In the case that it was someone else who wounded him, you can work your magic by building him back up. Tell him that person doesn’t know what they’re talking about and that he’s a wonderful man.
Tell him and show him how much you appreciate his worth. He’ll pick himself back up off the floor and get back to his normal self. It’s easier when it’s other people because he trusts you more.
He Wants Out
If the Leo man sees that things are not going to work out with you the way he thought they would or hoped they would, he will become icy and pull back. It’s his way of letting you know what is on the way.
In fact, he will normally just go ahead and call it off if he knows for sure that you’re not what he’s looking for. Take him at face value if he says this to you because he’s being truthful.
Can you show him that he’s wrong? Definitely! I have created the practical, step-by-step guide that shows you the ‘buttons’ to push that create this shift in how he feels, sees, and behaves around you.
So, if you are enough dealing with him being distant all of the time, I strongly recommend checking out my 30-day Leo Man Love Challenge… It will set you on the right path with your Leo guy.
Ultimately when your Leo guy goes silent, give him some time first. Let him sort his feelings out. It may have nothing to do with you and he’ll talk when he’s ready. If it does have something to do with you, he’ll let you know or he’ll stop talking altogether.
Why A Leo Man Suddenly Becomes Distant When Everything Seemed To Be Going Well?
One of the possible meanings when a Leo man goes distant is that he is not sure of his feelings for you, which makes him demonstrate hot and cold behavior.
When he’s not feeling what he wants, he might withdraw to think it over. He needs to decide if he’s willing to try to make it work or if he wants to just move on.
Leo men are notorious for moving on and finding other sources of excitement. Some will actually cheat because they aren’t yet ready to let go of their partner, but they’re seeking out what they feel they’re missing.
If the excitement or newness fades for him, he may find himself questioning if this is the right relationship for him. This is actually not uncommon. The woman he will stay with and be loyal to will be the one who gives him a steady stream of what he wants.
It does seem rather shallow, but unless a Leo man is 100% committed to you, there is that off chance that his silence may be because he’s thinking of moving on or has already moved on without letting you know.
If you feel this could be the case, you’ll need to just go ahead and ask him so you can get closure. You need to move on yourself. Otherwise, you’ll torture yourself wondering if you did something wrong. You don’t deserve that.
Get your answers, and then go ahead with your own life if he doesn’t feel the relationship is worth it anymore. There is no need to lower your standards to be what he desires.
What Do You Do When A Leo Man Pulls Away
This isn’t the popular answer, ladies, but the Leo man sometimes won’t tell you things unless you ask him. Communication is very important if you want to make it last with him and stop Leo from being distant.
If he’s being shady, ignoring you, or acting as though he doesn’t want to talk, you’re going to have to confront him. The thing is, you’re going to have to realize that it could bring up the truth.
What I mean by that is, if he’s unhappy with you, he’s going to tell you. That may result in a breakup or an argument. You need to know the truth, though. You deserve to know what is going on.
If it has something to do with you, then maybe you two can work it out by talking. If it has nothing to do with you, then at least he can tell you that and perhaps ask you for space.
Yes, the worst-case scenario is him realizing that it’s too stressful for him and breaking it off. However, he may go the other direction and appreciate the fact that you care enough about him to ask him what is wrong.
When the Leo man isn’t up for talking when you suggest it or if he’s ignoring your calls, texts, or perhaps emails, you’re going to have to be very direct about this. You’re going to have to message or text him your plan.
Tell him something like, “I don’t know what’s wrong, and I’d like to talk about it. I’m concerned about you; I’m here for you when you want to discuss it”. That leaves the ball in his court.
It also lets him know that you’re aware that something isn’t right and that you’d be up for talking about it. Just be prepared that it could go either way. However, you need to know the truth for your own peace of mind.
Leo Man Disappears After Intimacy — What Can You Do?
The Leo man in general needs attention almost constantly in his life. His sex life is no different. A Leo man craves pleasure in new and innovative ways. This makes him open to trying new things and perhaps answers your question about why Leo is so cold.
If a Leo man disappears after intimacy, avoid calling him and flooding his inbox with messages. He needs time to reflect on his emotions and thoughts.
However, if his disappearance has made you confused, you should communicate openly about it. Tell him how you feel, be calm, and ask him to explain his behavior. Don’t jump to conclusions and assume the worst!
If you want to keep him in a relationship with you alone, you had better be prepared to keep the fires burning in intimacy. When he becomes bored, he shuts off and would just rather not bother.
Read next: Breakup With A Leo Man — What Happens If Things End?
FAQ About Leo Man Being Distant
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Leo man and how this will affect your relationship?
Well, luckily for you I have compiled a list of questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate the difficult times you might experience with your Leo man.
Are Leo Men Moody?
Leo men aren’t the easiest of guys, to be completely honest. They are ruled by the Sun, which means that they can be rather proud and self-centered.
Having this in mind, Leo men can be moody at times. They easily get offended, lash out in anger, and then withdraw for some time to process their emotions. Leo man will not stay silent by choice but by necessity.
How Long Can A Leo Man Go Without Talking To You?
This really depends on the situation he is in with you, your relationship’s dynamics, and how serious he is about you.
My rough estimation would be from a couple of days to a couple of weeks. He knows that silence will make you angry and resentful, and this is what he wants you to feel because he is trying to punish your actions and make you question your behavior.
How Do You Know If A Leo Man Is Losing Interest?
This happens gradually and is usually followed by less communication. He will no longer be keen on responding frequently to your messages and may become less physically affectionate.
He would focus more on his friends and hobbies and be interested in spending less time with you.
If you notice these things, you better tell him because honest communication leads to understanding how you both feel in this relationship.
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I’m so confused…
Hello! I have a intresting story. I met this leo gyu he is newly single. I felt attraction right away and took the first step ask him out. We had long conversations on dates.Really got to know each other.We quite fast after couple dates ended up in bed. The chemistry was fire(im a sag)
He was texting me a lot, bought even a gift and suddenly something changed.
He is still texting sometimes but not as much. No more good nights and flirting. But still complimenting me.
I read your book but still dont know just to wait? Or he is just not intrested?
Hi Sagiwoman!
I think you should be bold and ask him what changed. If he acts unaware of what you’re talking about then tell him what you just told me and tell him that you thought maybe something had happened for him to pull back a bit. If he knows that you’re uneasy with him doing that then maybe he’ll step up again. Tell him you miss him and you miss how he makes you feel. He’ll eat that right up as a Leo man. For more hints, you might read my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
Libralove813
I am so confused by this Leo Sun/Libra Moon guy. Took 2 months of us texting for him to finally ask me out. He has 2 jobs so work takes up his life 6 days of the week. Usually he gets home around 7p-8p.
We had fun text conversations. Then when we hung out first time it was great conversation for 3hrs. No pressure. He likes to ask a lot of relationship type questions and wants to build a relationship off of a solid friendship…
He says he needs a lot of attention and affection so I give it and he’s surprised bc women he’s dated waits for him and he doesn’t like that… I give attention but he doesn’t seem affected. I told him and he says that’s the farthest from the truth. He says I’m special to him and something about me scares him/makes him nervous…
Well last Wed we end up sleeping together. I text him Thurs about nice time I had he thanked me and said he’d respond later bc he was slammed at work. He didn’t get to it. Friday he sends me good morning gif and we exchange a couple of texts but not the usual banter and laughs we do. He also says he’s never been late to work and he had been late every drop last week (I hung out with him 2x).
So Fri sat I give him space to work and rest and don’t text him, he doesn’t text either. Sun nothing from him so I send txt just saying thinking about you hope you are well. He says everything is everything..wth… and hope I had a good weekend. Today I heard nothing. I text him and he responded and we chatted a little. I told him I missed chatting with him and he “loved” my comment but that’s it and he told me goodnight beautiful. He used to text me good morning but not lately. He responds but doesn’t initiate.
What’s up with him? Should I give him attention or space?
Hi Libra Love!
It sounds like his Libra moon has a huge influence on his ability to date. Indecisive and taking a longer time than more Leo men would. Yes, starting with friendship is something important for him. It also sounds like he’s a bit overwhelmed due to his busy schedule which depletes his energy or willpower to hang out. I’d ask him flat out what is going on. Tell him how you feel about this when it happens and that it’s confusing you as to where you two stand. Tell him you don’t mind taking it slow but it would be really nice to hear from him a bit more than just short handed responses. Don’t be afraid to open up!
My name is Laquisha I been with leo man for a year his mom became sick and was told she had breast cancer ok he always use to talk about his mom saying he got a feeling she not going live long he stays in t j.g e house with his mom and dad a week ago he just stop texting me calling me and coming see me I ask him did I do anything wrong he said no so I ask wats wrong I even ask is there someone else he says no and he tied of me accusing him he says he been worrying about his mom I love him so much I been in tears cause I have to reach out to him blow his phone up to get him to respond he says he going come see me never does he use to talk about sex alot know he dont what should I do I dont want to think negative wat should I do he says we still together he still love and miss me but action show different
Hi Laquisha!
I think he’s having a hard time dealing with other things in his life. The mother having cancer definitely puts a damper on his life I’m sure. He’s not himself right now due to everything and is likely why he’s being the way he is. He needs your support and loyalty so try not to accuse him of anything. Tell him you’re there for him if he wants to talk as you still care for him. Tell him you’d like to hear a least a little more from him but you understand that he needs a bit of space to work through his current life circumstances. That should prove to him that you’re there for him and that you care. Hope this helps!
My boyfriend is a leo and was not in a relationship with anyone for over 8yrs, he is a rare breed leo i suppose, he is 42yrs old and i am 37yrs old.. He is good looking and very charming, he just is not at all like any leo i’ve known over the years and nothing like leo’s i’ve dated and been with in the past.. He likes being alone and has a fervent passion for music and film, especially jazz and north african music and films from the time periods (1930-1990), he is nothing like any man i’ve ever met, kind, charming, his family is very close to one another and he doesn’t have any children and was never married which i find hard to believe, cause he is so great with children, especially his niece and nephew who are both 10 and 11, who he babysits for his sister, when they are away quite often, he works from home 75% of the time and is a Sound Designer for film and tv. He is Always giving whenever he has extra money or even when he has no money to give, and lives by the motto of less is more when it comes to material possessions. He was born in canada, maybe that is why is so different from any man i’ve ever dated, i was suspicious he was hiding his true nature but after 2yrs i’ve found nothing, he does not hide anything from me and is open when i ask questions about his past.
I would suggest anyone who is with a leo to understand that all attributes to Leo’s and most signs can be completely wrong in suspicions, get to know your leo better and do not judge them without knowing the facts about everything, if they are not communicative, then try and find out why, my leo loves to communicate whether happy or in despair, he stresses to me all the time, be honest and do not lie to me, he says the truth does not hurt me, i like the truth, it cannot burn me or freeze me, its disappointing he tells me when its bad news or hurtful in nature but it hurts him more when i try and change the narration of the truth. Just be honest with your leo and if they act as if they do not want to be pushed, nudge umm a bit.
Hope this helps all those in love with a leo, my leo is born on july 27th 1977 and i would not give up on a leo when they go silent, they enjoy being alone at times and need to be alone i assume to focus on what they truly enjoy (there work or downtime pleasures), if there partner is not into what they immerse themselves in.
Good Luck
Hi Liana!
According to your man’s date of birth, he is on the cusp. He’s Cancer-Leo cusp. That means he has many Cancer qualities as well as Leo, I would also think Virgo is somewhere prominent in his chart based on what you’ve described. His moon is also possibly Sagittarius/Capricorn. So yes, there are lots of factors making him a bit different than the standard Leo. If you need more help with Leo, please read my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
I’ve been talking to this Leo guy for about a month now. However we have talked in the past on and off for about the last year but we always ended up with different people as in I was in a relationship and whenever the relationship was on rocky terms and we would break up constantly me and him will talk. He moved to a different city for college that was only a couple hours away from our hometown and when he came back for Christmas break we hung out and then stop talking, as usual. However, we started talking again and for the last month it’s been going great. We hung out, he invited me to hang out with his friends, it was all good, actually great. We talked as usual for about a week after, but now it’s becoming dry and not the same as usual. I’m not sure why, everything seemed fine. We were supposed to hang out twice since then, and he’s the one who asked to, but then he has flaked both times. He apologizes, he still texts me goodmorning, but I’m confused as to what happen. I don’t know what to do.
Hi Sabrina!
Yikes, he’s going to keep doing this as long as you allow. He knows that if he comes back, you’ll take him in. He probably has fears of what may happen between two of you. Maybe he’s jaded. He may also just be indecisive. He needs to figure it out and make a choice and stick to it. If you need more help with Leo, please read my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
Hey Anna I have this leo friend his dob 25 July, he has been confessing his love for me since last year January but even thou I like him, I couldn’t date. I had health challenges and he was there for.me throughout. Last month he confessed his love for me and this time he sounded more serious and he told me that he wants to discuss that more of that after the lock down… Then boom he went AWOl. Did I push him away??
Hi Tuky!
Hmm… maybe he’s just disappeared because he has something else going on and hasn’t told you about it yet. It might be work related or something else that he’s not comfortable discussing. Leo men do not like to look weak in front of the woman they’re into or in love with. If you’d like to learn more about Leo man, check out my book “Leo Man Secrets”.
Hi anna,
I have this leo guy who’s 26 years old and I’m 23 years old. We have been dating for a year now and we did have a conversation about being in a relationship with each other. He keeps saying that he’s not ready for that yet and that good things take time. I did meet his friends though and we do a lot of things that people would normally do in relationships. I really don’t know where his head is at and I don’t want to pressure him, because he’s been through a lot in his past relationship that lasted almost 5 years he was really hurt from that one. I think he’s afraid that i will hurt him just like his ex did.
I quite read a lot about his astrology because i want to make it work between us and i am in love with him. I’m just so scared to say it. I know that he loves me also i can feel it when we lay next to each other.
But recently i did hurt his feelings and he has been ignoring my texts for the past 3 days. I did contact him asking him to discuss the issue and apologized for the thing i did wrong but hasn’t responded. I dont know what to do now. He acts like he doesn’t care. Maybe i should give him some space? I miss him so much, the bubbly goofy sometimes arrogant side. Help please anna?
Hi Shereen!
If he was hurt, it may take him a bit of time to work past it. Give him a week then try to contact him again saying “I hope you’re doing well. You’re in my thoughts and I’d love to talk when you’re ready”. By giving him a week, you may make him miss you and so he’ll be ready to talk. I think he just needs to gather his thoughts and work at forgiveness. If you need more insight on Leo man, check out my book series “Leo Man Secrets”.
Anna,
I met this Leo online on a dating site over a year ago. We have never met in person but have crazy chemistry when we video chat. This back and forth thing has been going on between us for a while. We literally just look at each other and I get so bubbly it’s hard not to smile. He knows this. Sometimes he tells me he’s getting off cam with me because of it but he will come back if I ask him to. Well, we live 3 5 hrs away from each other and I recently got back on the site after a year hiatus. He found me and immediately favorited me. So we were talking on live the other night for like 3 hours he just sat there and watched me and other guys were there but he kinda let them know I was his. He asked me if I wanted more babies I said yes, he asked if I wanted a man and I said what kind of question is that.. then he asked if I wanted him. I kinda nervously blew the question off. He told me we should go on a date and I said ok He asked me to play his songs – mary j blige give me you, Tony terry- with you, and I did. He complimented me so many times that night saying how pretty I was to him. I gushed with tears and couldn’t stop blushing. He told me that God knows what he wants and that he doesn’t play about him and I. Ultimately we ended up calling each other for the very first time offline and he was asking me why did I cry. I told him because I felt close to him. Next day, I texted him a sweet GM text, he called me around 530 pm, he asked me to get online so that he could see my pretty face. I said ok but he never showed. I texted him that u was online and he said ok. Still no show. About 830 I text him to come here( meaning get online) and he never responded nor logged on. Next day, no call no text from him but I did text/call to check in on him.. but no response. Same thing for yesterday. He finally gets online today (I had sent him a message telling him like look I’ve reached out and if you don’t want to be bothered you could have told me) I told him I believe we have a chance to have what our hearts desired and how happy it made me to see him but that I didn’t want to hold onto hope when if he doesn’t feel anything for me like I feel for him. He didn’t respond to it but I was on live and he came on my live and said hey. I was hurt so I tried hiding my happiness that he was there. He responded with “woman you love me, you my baby” I asked “am i?” I asked if he left his baby hanging for 2 days worried? I told him it wasn’t up to me anymore and he replied “lol if you say so”. I continued to be nonchalant and he text back “have a nice day” I ended my live because I couldn’t hold back the tears. What do you make of this? Idk if I should just let the hope of us go.
Hi Aneria!
Leave this guy alone. He’s not serious about you. He’s playing with you to get attention and affection from you. He’s saying things he thinks you want to hear but then he goes and does whatever he wants. Trust me when I tell you that video chat is NOT the same as in person either. If he was really falling for you then he’d already be on a plane or whatever to see you. He’d need to hold you in his arms. This guy is a player. Pay him no mind and let him go. You can find someone far better than him. I wish you all the best!
Hi, I’ve been chatting to this Leo guy who lives abroad for the past 4 months. He tells me I’m “great” and he enjoys talking to me. He knows I like him. He does go quiet and distant a lot. I have raised this with him and he says it’s cause he’s busy and tired. I worry he’s losing interest and if I keep asking what’s wrong, I’ll come across as needy or bugging him. Given the pandemic, us meeting anytime soon is not going to happen. He also tells me about women who live in his area who are interested in him but the feelings and reciprocated. I guess I’m just really confused by his behaviour, as does he see me as just a friend and nothing more?
Hi Roxy!
You need to flat out ask him what you two are and if he’s still with you. I don’t think that would be wrong. You need to know so you can either hang in there while you wait for him or you can let go and move on. You’re not doing yourself any favors by analyzing it. You’re right, if you keep bugging him he will back off our out. Just be direct. You should be able to get your answer and know the truth. Be strong! I wish you all the best.
Hello, l am currently seeing a Leo man,he was born on 26 July, my month of birth is May 19, Everything was okay, but then l had a go at him through message over drinking ways, l tried calling him and he would say he will call back back but it has been 3 days without calling, l am now thinking of blocking him.what can l do
Hi Sally!
He sounds like he’s hurt or angry with you going at him.. I would tell him you didn’t mean to sound so rough and tough with him but you’d like to talk things over. Then leave it be for awhile. If he truly cares and wants to improve things between you then he’ll reach out. Leo cannot go too long without attention from the person he cares for so I don’t think the silence will last too long. If you want to learn more about Leo man, check out my books on Leo Man Secrets.
Hi Anna,
I’ve been seeing a Leo man (17th August) and I’m an Aquarius (16th February). We’ve been talking like 4 months and couple of dates the. ended up in bed last time we met. He’s very affectionate, responsive, attentive. He likes to pay everything for me, told me that he likes me big time , adore me, compliment me and treat me like a Queen at some point that I feel. He always the one who initiates the contact. We talk to each other everyday, after work time since both of us working during the day. And meet once every two weeks as I requested because my schedule is quite packed and I want to take things slowly yet surely. In fact, I feel like absence would makes the heart grow fonder I assume. Last time we met, we had sex for the first time. I did have a toxic cycle with my ex which makes leads me a trauma and issue to trust and rely or get intimate with someone. I tried to control not to have sex but the affection and attraction that I have towards him , and it just felt right that night. I asked him what did he feel after we made out that night and he’s said it just felt right and amazing. I told him the issues that I have because of past experiences since we’ve been always love to speak up and be honest with each other. He said he understand.Few days later, I feel like he’s less responsive , suddenly quiet and I assume he goes distant with me. I’ve waited during night just to text and speak to him after work time. He still reply to my message and likes my message, watch my story on Instagram but the frequency of text message is lessen and not ready fast like before. I know he’s moving into new office this week so I don’t know if he’s just busy with office or did I do or said something hurtful that bruised his ego. I want us to fix but I don’t know how and what to say. I still care.
Hi Hanis!
Alright so with Leo, sometimes they want time to themselves. They love being “free” or at least sort of. This sounds crazy but sometimes if you stop initiating with him and pull back a little bit, he’ll miss you and start pulling back toward you. Now, from what you’re saying he has other stuff going on and so maybe the stress of the changes are making him tired or moody and so he feels it best not to reach out to you. You won’t know what is going on though unless you ask him. Ask him why he’s cooled things off a bit. He should be able to tell you. Tell him if it’s something you did, you need to know. Most likely though, nothing is wrong and he’ll tell you he’s just dealing with a bit extra. Find out now and ask him!
Hi Anna,
Just wanting to ask if it is normal for my Leo man to have his ‘off’ days? I mean there’ll be days where he’s all hyped up and cant stop video calling me and flirt and all but suddenly there’ll be days where he’ll go silent and not contacting me at all. Is this normal?
And i have this feeling that he’ll turn quiet or pull back a bit when i sort of come a little strong onto him. Does Leo not like if im being expressive about my strong feeling for him? Do i need to play hard to get or something with this Leo guy?
Hi Sarah!
Yes, it’s absolutely normal. He needs time to himself sometimes so don’t let that bother you. Its when he does it more often and for longer periods that you should worry. I think instead of voicing how you feel about him, it’s better to show him when you can. You can compliment him plenty and he’ll like that but if he starts doing the coldness thing, you can pull back a bit from messaging him. It will make HIM miss YOU. Trust me if he really cares for you, he will step forward. If you need anymore help, check my site for all my amazing guides on Leo man!
Anna,
I met this Leo online on a dating site over a year ago. We have never met in person but have crazy chemistry when we video chat. This back and forth thing has been going on between us for a while. We literally just look at each other and I get so bubbly it’s hard not to smile. He knows this. Sometimes he tells me he’s getting off cam with me because of it but he will come back if I ask him to. Well, we live 3 5 hrs away from each other and I recently got back on the site after a year hiatus. He found me and immediately favorited me. So we were talking on live the other night for like 3 hours he just sat there and watched me and other guys were there but he kinda let them know I was his. He asked me if I wanted more babies I said yes, he asked if I wanted a man and I said what kind of question is that.. then he asked if I wanted him. I kinda nervously blew the question off. He told me we should go on a date and I said ok He asked me to play his songs – mary j blige give me you, Tony terry- with you, and I did. He complimented me so many times that night saying how pretty I was to him. I gushed with tears and couldn’t stop blushing. He told me that God knows what he wants and that he doesn’t play about him and I. Ultimately we ended up calling each other for the very first time offline and he was asking me why did I cry. I told him because I felt close to him. Next day, I texted him a sweet GM text, he called me around 530 pm, he asked me to get online so that he could see my pretty face. I said ok but he never showed. I texted him that u was online and he said ok. Still no show. About 830 I text him to come here( meaning get online) and he never responded nor logged on. Next day, no call no text from him but I did text/call to check in on him.. but no response. Same thing for yesterday. He finally gets online today (I had sent him a message telling him like look I’ve reached out and if you don’t want to be bothered you could have told me) I told him I believe we have a chance to have what our hearts desired and how happy it made me to see him but that I didn’t want to hold onto hope when if he doesn’t feel anything for me like I feel for him. He didn’t respond to it but I was on live and he came on my live and said hey. I was hurt so I tried hiding my happiness that he was there. He responded with “woman you love me, you my baby” I asked “am i?” I asked if he left his baby hanging for 2 days worried? I told him it wasn’t up to me anymore and he replied “lol if you say so”. I continued to be nonchalant and he text back “have a nice day” I ended my live because I couldn’t hold back the tears. What do you make of this? Idk if I should just let the hope of us go.
Hi,
Met a Leo guy and I am a Sagittarius woman. We started chatting on the phone; we had so much in common it was scary. We then we decided to meet in person. He made me dinner and we chatted about life. He is a lot older than me, but we get along well; there was an instant attraction, and we moved really quickly. He is very affectionate (tight hugs, kisses in the forehead and back etc.), caring and notices everything about me; down to what I am wearing and makes positive comments. He is an extremely busy guy, always on the go with work, friends and his own interests, however responds to text messages and we chat on the phone every few nights., and see each other every week. I can say his initiation of text messages is not the same after we met; no good morning texts anymore, but I think this is the same with a lot of guy. He always asks me to stay over when I see him, but that is not possible because of work. Anyhow he has been away for the past week, he invited me to come with him after three days (when his friend left), but that wasn’t possible due to work, as I can’t leave on a moment’s notice and be away from several days without planning. I said I could come later in the week and he said he would be home, even though he decided to stay a bit longer, oh well. We have been texting this past week and we chatted on the phone. I have been stroking his ego, as he sent me several pictures of himself. It’s not hard because he is a very handsome man. In the past two days he has been acting strange. I called twice and he hasn’t answered the phone it goes to voicemail. Normally if he missed my call, he would call back right back. The last real text message was a joke about his age and keeping up, which we always joke about anyway, did I offend him. Yesterday was his birthday and I sent a text message wishing him a happy birthday and I received a thank you message. I called mid-day to chat with him and no answer and no response to my text about asking him if he is doing anything special. I just don’t get it. He is very attentive to things I ask him to do, such as stop talking about ex-girlfriends and always lends an ear and offers suggestion and follows-up on work issues I am dealing with, as I have a very high profile position. He has slightly done this to me before, so I gave him back his own medicine and he called me out a few weeks ago when I didn’t respond to his text message for a day. I’m older and I don’t want to waste my time, should I move on. Is he playing games?
CC
Hi CC!
Oh Leo and Sagittarius!!! Yes, they are an amazing match. He is not playing games at all. This is absolutely normal for a Leo man. They think it’s alright for them not to respond but if you don’t they notice immediately and say something. This goes to prove that he cares and if he ever does go cold for longer, you can stop talking… he’ll come back running. I’ve had plenty of clients tell me as much. They try it and it works without fail. So I think you’re alright sweetheart. Keep going with the flow and you’ll be just fine.
I met a Leo ( 8 August ) & I’m an Aries ( 7 April )
We had some miscommunication,
misunderstanding , both of us are just head strong…He cares alot for me , GDM & GDN me & always checking to make sure that I eat , talking about our future plan but in the end he say he don’t have feeling for me ( we are not a couple but yet doing what most couple do except ❌️SEX/KISS❌️ ) He say no feeling but still asked me to wait ( he say he’s a slow person when it comes to relationship ) but I’m.confused therefore I didn’t respond to it & He asked if I really don’t believed that he would like me but I replied with a ” U say u have no feeling ” & we left the issue remained not properly clear …so during October last year we had no contact for months but I’ve sent him a Merry Xmas & HNY & he responded back but that’s it …Last month I texted him as i need some advice from him , he took 5hrs to reply but i feel that’s okay as he apologised & send me multiple text with his opinion & advise but when I end the conver with me asking how’s his new school , he no reply …Last 2 week I texted him again for another help in location & once again he took 5-6hrs to reply, he apologised to me and said he missed my message as he was still in school with his Rugby practise and he asked if I’ve managed to find the place …Again , I ended with me saying ” Stay careful and don’t injure yourself “but this time he reply with a ” thanks thanks and even wished me all the best in my upcoming National exam ”
TBH, I had never move on because I still likes him alot …I do not know if he has any one who he fancy or in a talking stage rn but I thought IF he ever send me a bday wishes ( my bday coming in April…. I rly hope he will although it’s a 50-50 thou ) * if he rly did I’m planning to ask him out ( not sure if he’s willing or not ) & give it another go to lhk my inner feeling eventhough if it’s a rejection from him…I want to fight again…
Do U think it’s okay to be initiative ? Will it be a turn off to Leo if I ask him out or confess to him.again on how I feel ?
I forgot to mention that my zodiac Sun is Sagittarius.
-Aneria