What happens when a Leo man disrespects you? Is it his dark side showing, or just his dramatic way of testing your patience? Many women wonder how to tell if a Leo man is done with them or if he’s just trying to make them jealous.
If you’re asking yourself, “Is my Leo man mad at me and ignoring me?” you’re not alone. Men born under this fiery sign are magnetic and passionate, but they can also confuse you with their mixed signals. One day he’s showering you with attention, and the next he’s distant, dismissive, or even rude. That’s often when a Leo man disrespects you without realizing how deeply it stings.
I’m Anna Kovach, a Relationship Astrologer with decades of experience guiding women like you to understand and connect with their Leo men. Over the years, I’ve seen how easily this sign can sabotage love with pride, ego, and unpredictable tempers — and I’ve also helped countless women learn how to turn things around.
If you’ve ever wondered how to respond when a Leo man disrespects you, or even how to make him regret hurting you, keep reading. The strategies I’m about to share may surprise you — and they could be the key to winning his heart back on your terms.
1. He’s showing off
When a Leo man disrespects you he may be showing off. Men born under this sign can become rude when they are showing off. He may act selfish or cocky when he’s trying to get your admiration because as a fire sign, Leos often take things too far.
Wondering how to deal with an angry Leo man? Focus on his positive attributes. If a Leo guy is being disrespectful, he may be using outdated and ineffective advice to act macho. He may think that being rude makes you want him more, but it’s essential you let him know your limits.
2. He wants you to compete for his attention
Leo men can be over the top, and sometimes this means he drastically oversteps limits. If he’s being disrespectful, your Leo man might be competing for your attention and using his flair for theatrics to make you notice him. You’ve got to know how to beat a Leo man at his own game to outmaneuver him.
Your natural inclination would be to give a Leo man less of your attention when he acts disrespectfully, but this can backfire. While you likely won’t want to reward him by doting on him when he’s disrespectful.
The best reaction is to be assertive and show him you respect yourself while also being more mindful of ways you can show him you are watching and listening without his needing to resort to undesirable antics to get you to notice him.
3. He’s trying to make you jealous
A Leo guy will try to make you jealous by disrespecting you. He may provoke you by flirting with other women and acting disinterested in you. He does this to try to get your attention. He might seek negative attention by making you think he has an interest in someone else.
If he’s being rude by flirting with other women or acting like he might have someone else in his life, a Leo man is testing you. A Leo man may push your buttons because he wants to see how you’ll react, he can be manipulative when he feels insecure about the relationship. You can make a Leo man regret hurting you if you don’t take the bait. Avoid getting jealous and remind him that you are too confident for games.
4. His feelings are hurt
If a Leo man ignores you or acts passive-aggressive, his feelings are likely hurt. He can be sensitive and may become defensive if he thinks he’s been treated unfairly. Leos are high maintenance and can become reactive if you hurt his feelings, even unintentionally.
Gently try to get to the core reasons he’s upset. Don’t take his reaction personally. A Leo man may need extra soothing to feel validated, and when he is upset, he may take it out on you initially. Following a No-Contact Rule with a Leo man can get him to take you seriously, but this is a risky game. It’s better to treat him to some TLC when he’s being ornery.
5. He’s arrogant
If you love a Leo man, you know the truth is he has an arrogant streak. When he gets a little too full of himself, your Leo man may become haughty and rude. He may disrespect you when he becomes too self-important and overconfident in himself.
He can be too intense and turn confidence into arrogance, leading to regrettable decisions. Some of the things he might do include being disrespectful and self-centered. When he does this, don’t confront him directly. Remain calm yet assertive and remind him that he is not above you or anyone else.
6. He doesn’t think you respect yourself
There are many things about a Leo man that are beyond your control, but one thing you can manage is how you carry yourself. If you are confident and self-respecting, a Leo man will be more likely to respect you.
But if he is not being kind and respectful, he may be responding to signals you’ve given off. If you are self-effacing or downplay your strengths, your Leo love interest might take you for granted. Don’t set a low bar for how he can treat you. He’ll respect you more if you demonstrate assertiveness and confidence.
7. He is angry over something petty
If a Leo man is harboring a silly resentment, he may be too embarrassed to tell you how he’s feeling and why he’s upset. Instead, he’ll make his insecurities about you and project anger at you.
Your Leo guy can become disproportionately upset over small things. A petty resentment or trigger might overwhelm him, but if he doesn’t want to admit just how hurt he is, he may disrespect you instead of being honest about his feelings. When this happens, let him know his rude behavior is unaceptable and then gently question him to get to the root cause of his upset feelings.
Before you go,
Remember that when a Leo man disrespects you, it’s usually his pride or ego talking, not a reflection of your worth. He thrives on admiration, but that doesn’t mean you should tolerate his moods or rudeness. You hold the power to set the standard for how he treats you — and when you do, he’ll respect and desire you even more.
Now tell me — have you ever had a Leo man cross the line with his words or actions?
How did you handle it? Did you call him out, or did you pull back and let him chase?
I’d love to hear your story, and your experience could help another woman facing the same fiery challenges.
If you’re ready to go deeper and learn the exact phrases that cut through his ego and spark his obsession, you need my Magic Phrases program. Inside, you’ll discover word-for-word secrets that make a Leo man stop playing games and start fighting to keep you close.
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With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
