Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Leo man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Leo man or improve your relationship with one in May 2020.
Attracting a Leo Man in May 2020
1. Respect That He’s Busy
If you want to attract and win the heart of a Leo man in May 2020, you need to respect that he’s busy.
As a fixed fire sign, the Leo man is naturally driven, passionate, and ambitious when achieving his goals.
With the transit Sun in Taurus highlighting his tenth house of ambition and career until May 20, the Leo man may be more work-oriented than usual, and this leaves less time for connecting with you.
If you work with your Leo man or are in the same industry, then it will be easy for you to stay connected with him despite his busy schedule. If not, it may be more challenging, and you may have to be intentional with scheduling quality time together.
One easy way to stay connected is to sync your digital calendars. If you aren’t into digital scheduling, practice open communication. Make a point to discuss your plans for the week in advance to avoid disruption.
Another fun way to respect his schedule and still keep his attention is to be full of surprises. With Capricorn ruling the tenth house and also being a lover of gifts, the romantic Leo man will appreciate any thoughtful gestures you make to express your affection for him.
When the Sun leaves materialistic Taurus and enters social butterfly Gemini on May 20, his schedule should free up, giving you more time to spend together. Keep things casual. He may be more flirtatious than usual.
2. Make Your Expectations Clear
If you’re hoping to get a serious commitment out of the Leo man in May, you need to be clear up front about your expectations and desires for the future.
On May 13, Venus, the planet of love, will station retrograde in his eleventh house of friendships and emotional detachment in Gemini until June 25. During this period, the Leo man may be giving you mixed signals about commitment. He may go back and forth between wanting more affection and acting withdrawn.
By being clear about what you want from the beginning, you set the standard. And although this may feel like you’re giving him an ultimatum, the Leo man’s fixed nature needs something to work toward or look forward to, and earning your love and affection is a great reward.
With this retrograde transit occurring in a communication sign like Gemini, you must hold yourself to the same standards you set for him. For example, make sure you aren’t giving him mixed signals.
If you told him that you want to wait to be intimate, don’t invite him to spend the night alone in your home or bed. When you contradict yourself, it makes him feel like you aren’t trustworthy or reliable enough for him to take you seriously.
But when you back up your words with your actions, the Lion in him is turned on, and he will find you more attractive. This consistency helps him see your potential future more clearly.
3. Let Him Lead
When it comes to finding love with a Leo man in May 2020, he needs to think he’s in charge, especially in the beginning of the month.
With transit Mercury in Taurus highlighting his tenth house of authority and governance until May 11, the Leo man is more dominant, opinionated, and cool-natured than usual.
During this period, the Leo man is most attracted to the woman who can respect his beliefs and public reputation. He wants to feel supported and adored.
Although this transit causes him to be more mentally distracted than usual, this can be a time of growth for your long-term connection.
You should focus on going with the flow and being a solid support system. Don’t push him too hard or question his thoughts. Save that for later.
Any questions, concerns, or suggestions for improvement should be made when Mercury enters his eleventh house of groups and teamwork in Gemini from May 11 to May 28.
This is the best time to focus on a shared passion project, hobby, or interest. You can establish exciting experiences when you connect with other like-minded people.
If possible, ask him if you can tag along with his friends for a fun night out, a virtual game night, or a charity event. Let him know that you’re open to an adventure and willing to follow his lead.
4. Cater to His Emotions
May 2020 can be an emotionally intense month for the Leo man.
With transit Mars in Pisces highlighting his eighth house of intimacy and soul growth, the Leo man may be thinking about his romantic relationships on a more esoteric and spiritual level.
During this period, take a compassionate approach in love.
Instead of coming on aggressively, be soft and sensual with your affection. Make a point to pay attention to his body language to gauge his needs.
Pisces rules the nervous system, so if he’s anxious, quietly go brew him a pot of herbal tea.
Pisces is also giving, so always make sure you’re returning his favors. He will become resentful if the relationship becomes one-sided and all you do is take.
Sexually, the influence of thought-driven Mars in Pisces arouses the Leo man’s love for romance and fairytales. So with the eighth house ruling sex and intimacy, set the mood before you seal the deal.
Put on soft music, light candles, bring in fresh flowers, and diffuse his favorite scents and essential oils. Go the extra mile to assure he is loved and cared for.
Although several of the outer planets like Saturn and Jupiter are stationing retrograde this month, this is still an excellent time to be in love.
If you work with his schedule, make your expectations clear, follow his lead, and cater to his emotions, I know there are so many good things to come for you and the Leo man. So make sure you stay updated with the blog to see How to Attract a Leo Man in June 2020.
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